Lastnight he was over my house and he was talking to his EX on the phone outside for 15 minutes. Now I confronted him and said " Maybe we can go out when you two sort things out" and he said " We do have everything sorted out" So I asked him why he still talks to her then? But he didnt answer me yet. He told me that he wants to be with me and he loves me and he dont like her AT ALL. What do yous think?!?! Help me please!! Thank you.
2006-11-30 06:28:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him why he can't have the conversation in front of you if it is so innocent. I wouldn't like that hat he goes outside to talk to her in private - he's obviously hiding something unless it was noisy inside or something.
2006-11-30 06:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep your guards up until you know otherwise. There is this saying in my culture "old fire sticks are easy to get caught" so you be careful. When guys are having problems with their girlfriends they tend to have someone lurking in the shadows so that if things don't work out they will always have someone to fall back on. That someone could be her or you!!! Try not to invest too much just take it one day at a time.
2006-11-30 14:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your first reaction was the right way to go. either there was some big issue that needed to be talked about when he was on the phone with her (so they therefore DON'T have everything sorted out), or he was just chatting with his ex while he was with you for no reason, which is really, really rude. don't put yourself in that position girl.
2006-11-30 14:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you then he should be honest with you and have nothing to hide from you. Maybe he still wants to be friends with her but doesn't want to hurt you. I wouldn't want to go out with a lass who kept talking to their ex but not letting me know what was going on.
2006-11-30 14:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird! He shouldnt be talking to her when he's with you, or evn at all if he says he doesnt like her! Have they decided to stay mates? Or does he feel sorry for her maybe, and doesnt want to tell her to get lost? He needs to make a decision if its upsetting you!
2006-11-30 14:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by enigma64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. Maybe 10. How juvenile. Do you never talk to people on phone? Get over it. Wait a while to date, so you will be more secure in yourself.
2006-11-30 14:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by naynay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dont like someone then you dont talk to them for 15 mins do you? i def think he is playing around with his ex whilst with you, ask him outright if hes still involved with you and if he cant answer you in the eyes there and then, then id walk away from him and find somebody who will be honest and caring for you.good luck.
2006-11-30 14:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by jules t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to be angry, but you have to trust him when he says it's over between them. If he keeps talking to her in the future, then something is definitely up.
2006-11-30 14:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by jenahfah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has kids with this girl he has too talk to her if not hes not over her yet give him a little time if you have all ready give him time then grab his nuts an make him see things your way
2006-11-30 14:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama.....good GOD! Girl, wake up! He's talking to his ex on your porch! Hello? He's moving from one girl to the next...
2006-11-30 14:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋