in school there is this one guy, who i think is really sweet. he isnt hot lokie johnny depp or brad pitt, but he is kind and sensitive, and thats what i want! we go to church together and we flirt ALL the time! but i think that he just takes mine as a joke! how can i make him more interested in me?? and does he like me ornot? he is always acting like he does, but does he?
2006-11-30 06:24:16 · 8 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont wait show him that your interested, by talking him to do something with you, then at the end of the predate ask him if he would like your phone number and call you sometime. the reason why not to wait is bc good guys are shy, and sometimes back down bc they feel insecure that u really like them back, so u will have to make the first move; then see where it goes; i know girls r used to guys doing it but too me you shouldnt wait for him to get over insecurity u should comfort and tell bc most guys dont know girls like u love them back
2006-11-30 06:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is, how old are you to? Are you in public school or high school? When someone is interested in you they usually come out and ask you out for dinner or a movie. Maybe if shyness is a problem with him, ask him out on a date. What do you have to lose? Some times people are blind and can't see that your interested in them. So all you do is make it clear to them by saying I like you and wouldn't mind dating you! Try this and see where it takes you. Cocoa
2006-11-30 15:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'm going to tell you right now that I'm in a similar situation; from the guy's point of view. Get him alone, maybe outside church, and tell him you have feelings for him. Ya see, most guys try to hide our feelings, and I know that I'm extremely good at it. I've had feelings for my sister's friend for 8 or 9 years, and I've never even hinted at my feelings until recently.
Honestly, rejection feels a lot better than keeping you feelings to yourself. Trust me; I've waited way too long to do something, and I suggest you take a lesson from me. Like ol' gramps used to tell me; "A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others."
2006-11-30 14:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jared C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he call you, does he like to hang out with you if yes he is interested. Does he have a lot of other female friends he talk to if so watch out
2006-11-30 14:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does but at young ages it's hard to express anything so if he is too slow in making a move I think you should... you never know unless you go for it!
good luck!
2006-11-30 14:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my advise is tell him how you feel and tell him how much you like him and ask him if he wants to go to the movies sometime!
Good Luck!
2006-11-30 14:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lil' Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come out n ask him if he likes u...but if he does dont rush nething let god work in his mysteries wayz in ur life n remember dont ever put no1 above god
2006-11-30 14:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by babyboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him that's the only why you'll find out
2006-11-30 14:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋