ok theres a senior at my school and we like each other but we are in two different grades{ima freshman} we chat and flirt but i have a boyfriend. he{my boyfriend} saw me and him hugging but he didnt pay any attention even though he saw. should i tell him about me and the guys relationship?
2006-11-30 06:18:15 · 16 answers · asked by dat chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think that if you find the senior attractive and you guys flirts and talk, just talk to your boyfriend about it. If you love your boyfriend, you owe him that much. Even if you don't think he notices it, he really might and just not be saying anything to you. So I would just talk to him about it, and then if he has a problem and isn't understanding, then maybe he's not the one for you...then you can get with the senior--in my opinion, age doesn't matter, if the other person is into you :)
2006-11-30 06:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Katie Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you guys are just friends I dont think that its really a big deal if you hug him and flirt with him and stuff, and your boyfriend shouldnt care either. He might have saw you hugging him and was to shy to confront you about it but if you wanna start going out with the senior guy, break up with your boyfriend now cause you can end up seriously hurting him. And personally I think that if your a freashman this guy is way to old and mature for you but thats just what I think. Good luck with things!
-jennifer
2006-11-30 14:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are interested in this guy as more then a friend then I wouldn't bother telling your boyfriend. If you ARE interested in this senior guy then you need to dump your boyfriend or stop talking to the guy completely. If you stay w/ your boyfriend while you like another guy it will cause jealousy and confusion.
You're young. I say go for the senior. :P
2006-11-30 14:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What relationship? You chat and flirt. To most guys that means nothing other than you are friendly with him. Most guys would not view that as a relationship. Unless he's said that he wants to go out with you, he's just having fun and you would be breaking up with your boyfriend for nothing.
2006-11-30 14:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only rlationship you have with him right now is you are good friends, so why should you feel a need to hide it? Hide WHAT really? friends can give each other a hug, I give my good friends hugs Why are you so paniced? Just chill you'll deal with it,
2006-11-30 14:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by rockinshewolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What relationship? This senior just wants to bone you, not date you. Leave your boyfriend in the dark, I'm sure he doesn't want to know.
2006-11-30 14:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're hugging on other guys and your b/f didn't say anything or wasn't bothered by it, then he could care less about you. So don't worry if you think you're hurting your current b/f. I don't think he cares. You've already done the damage. He's not stupid.
2006-11-30 14:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and the other guy are thinking about getting together, its only fair to tell your boyfriend.
2006-11-30 14:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you have a bf you should'nt be hugging up or liking some other guy. you should'nt have a "relationship" with someone else. if you want to be with this other guy you should break up with your bf, not string him along why you secretly like this other guy.
2006-11-30 14:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not right now because all you're doing is flirting, right? So there's nothing right now. If it grows into something more, then tell him. But don’t make something from nothing.
2006-11-30 14:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by Little Southern Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋