2006-11-30 06:13:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy who actually cares. And shows it. I had the MAJOR hots for this guy for a while... he cared about me for a long time, like a year or so, but I was dating someone else at the time. And he's not even physically attractive by general standards, he's quite overweight and is shorter than I am.
2006-11-30 06:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Viki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know everyone says the person's personality and for me that is the truth. I want someone I can really trust and can laugh with and be silly with. But on the flip side be able to be serious and dependable even understanding about different things that may be going on. I wouldn't mind even cuddling and watching tv together. I want someone I can be myself with and not have to feel guilty or doubt him because he will use things I say as a trap or turn them around on me. If I can't be open and honest with him, without him calling me names and things like that. Then there is no relationship or anything that will continue there. And lastly need someone to challenge me in a good way, so as I don't just sit back in my comfort zone all the time. I want someone that will spend time with me ask about my day and treat me respectfully and appropriately. Because the name calling and stuff like that is far from even being worth it.
2006-11-30 14:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question implies an event that has not occured and stills remains a future occurence.
Personality. Is this person enjoyable to spend time with.
Possibility. Physical attraction and personality in place, then the big question, anticipation, will it happen. Will I be with this person sexually and emotionally. Anticipation is a strong player in your scenario.
2006-11-30 14:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I like a woman who is honest, genuine, caring, intelligent (but slightly less smart than me), funny, earns a good living, is an only child, has elderly parents who live a fair distance away in a big house which they own, appreciates me for who I am and is at least 15 years younger (and able to continue working long after I retire).
Oh! I also like a women who laughs at all of my jokes and is not in the least bit materialistic.
Michael
2006-11-30 14:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess that appearance is not that important reason to turn one against the one u like , the most important thing in my point of view is feeling that he/she has stopped caring ..!
2006-11-30 14:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hes an x now, but when he would wear wranglers no shirt and he'd be bush hogging his sweat turned me on its strange i know. The way he talked, walked, smiled, and his uniform oh my goodness if you only new I could look at it hanging up and get wet.
2006-11-30 14:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by samcamcam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get really turned on when someone can challenge me intellectually, have a big debate on a subject and then still be cool, not angry. This is just me, but it happens so rarely that it is worth mentioning.
2006-11-30 14:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sweet and charming. Very humble and simple. Very real down to earth and loving spirit. Over looks all of my flaws and see the very best of me.
That is what make me fall in love with my wife.
2006-11-30 14:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Big P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, it's the eyes. That have to draw me in. And secondly it is the heart, they have to be caring and accepting of who I am. They have to really be interested in me, the real me, faults and all. And last of all, if you can't laugh in a relationship, then it would all be very boring.
2006-11-30 14:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by blonde b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense of humor
2006-11-30 14:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋