My boyfriend always tells me that I dont trust him, but I wonder why because he goes out and gets wasted at the highest ranked parting college with other girls who wants to get down his pants, yet he doesnt trust me when all I do is watch little kids, and work, I dont go out drinking, I dont party, and he doesnt trust me. What is that all about?
2006-11-30 06:12:29 · 14 answers · asked by stacie h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-30 06:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying: "The thief locks his doors the tightest."
He knows it's entirely possible for someone to be in a committed relationship and put his/herself in temptation's way at every opportunity, because he does it. Odds are he feels guilty about this on some level, and is trying to rationalize it by saying that everybody does it, and is then projecting that rationalization on to you.
There is absolutely nothing you can do in a case like that, because it's *his* behaviour and not yours that is spawning this lack of trust on his part. Find a graceful way to end it. Or if it's more your style, yell something about how with all the times he's accused you of being untrustworthy, you wish you had been, and slam the door in his face.
2006-11-30 14:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why should you?? You accuse him and he turns around and accuses you? He's trying to put it all on you when really he's the one doing some **** behind your back! Watch out girl!
2006-11-30 14:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you are a sl ut or something. Time to move onto a new guy who love you more and has more money then this loser you are with now.
2006-11-30 14:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because you dress so nice, your so beautiful that he thinkgs that you can get any guy you want. He has trust issues.
2006-11-30 14:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't trust you.. Stacie he is not worth your time and love..
know this before its too late and you get hurt..
good luck!
2006-11-30 14:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Quetzal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's guilt. He doesn't trust you because of what he is doing behind your back...dump the jerk.
2006-11-30 14:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is insucure to bad he's not a man yet cause then we'd both be partying.
2006-11-30 14:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now before he hits you...this coming from a male
2006-11-30 14:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either a.) he's cheating on you and is projecting it in a strange way or b.) he's been cheated on before.
2006-11-30 14:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by pastor of muppets 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing he feels quilty because he does all those things to you and is just turning it around on you to make himself feel better. get rid on him man!
2006-11-30 14:18:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋