ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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16 hours ago
she just sent me another one also that said shes not trying to stalk me or be mean she just wants to see how im doing and how schools going and stuff
2006-11-30 06:11:52 · 7 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The two of you have been together for a long time, so it's only natural for her to wonder what's up. Seeing those messages she sent you I get the feeling she wants to see how you feel for a possible getting together again.
Anyway, the only way to find out is to see her or to send her a message. After that you can hopefully lay this episode of your life behind you, or move on together with her.
2006-11-30 06:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am sorry that you are going through this experience am sure it a very unpleasant
Your Girl friend I think she is confused she does not know what she wants
she does not want you but wants to make sure that she can have you .
From they you have talked about her I think she is an ESFP check it out may be it is true.
You are doing the right thing until she Finds some one new then u will get rid of her sms mesgs and etc .
I wish you all the Best
Good luck
2006-11-30 14:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Eng.F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to be as available as the other guy. Obviously she has no clue on how bad she hurt you or if she does she is just being cruel or clueless. She doesnt want to admit what she did to you was hurtful. Once you start talking to her and she can calm her guilt she will stop talking to you.
2006-11-30 14:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she "took a brake" and realized she really liked you and she hasn't broken up with her bf yet b/c she doesn't want to be alone if you reject her so she can fall back on him if you don't take her back.....so mainly dude she just wants you back
2006-11-30 14:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by flash72390 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right to not contact her back. Sounds like you are her back up plan and no one deserves that. Block her and get on with your life.
2006-11-30 14:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is everything in two's, 2months, 2years, 2times, 2weeks.
2006-11-30 14:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by reene2g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-30 14:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋