i just asked a question. ok here is a lil bit more detail. me and my boyfriend have the same friends so everything he tells his guy friend he tells me b/c me and that guy are best friends. me and my boyfriend dont mess around and i dont have a reputation of doing stuff like that. he tells his friend he is scared to do anything wiht me but wants to real bad b/c he doesnt want to bbe a virgin but when he is with me all he does is kiss me and it sucks. he is very clingy and is all on me in public. we have been dating for bout 2 months and he is like in love with me but me not so much. he is even buying me a ring for christmas. even though i hinted i didnt want it. he doesnt listen to me. im so confused.
2006-11-30 06:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by Carissa H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds as though you are not mature enough to be in a relationship. First you say you don't mess around but then you're upset that he doesn't want to either. If you're not in love with him, you shouldn't mess around with him in the first place. Why don't you take a break until you are older?
2006-11-30 06:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question for you: is he a virgin? If so, he may have a serious belief in 'not before the wedding'. You may be the first girl he has even kissed. By the way, the stuff that happens in public is a guys need to fit in. It has nothing to do with you. Guide him how to kiss that you find enjoyable. Sounds like a nice guy who will do anything to please you. Don't take the ring, but don't be mean. Tell him to please keep it until your relationship gets there.
2006-11-30 06:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are both young. Most guys are going to feel attachment to their first few girlfriends. Believe me - they grow out of it. If you want to move further w/ your physical relationship then just tell him. Even make moves on him when you're just kissing and give him the hint.
Just a heads up - if you do have sex he's going to be even more clingy for awhile unless he's a complete jerk and ditches you afterwards - but he sounds like nice guy. :)
Don't worry - and don't be dissapointed w/ his clingy behavior - trust me! You want to hold on to the nice guys.
2006-11-30 06:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're like 12 or 13 so I'll just say this. Stay in school, forget about boys for another six or seven years, focus only on school.
2006-11-30 06:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i would say obsessive, tell him straight up that this is too much for you and too soon. your not at that point with him and if he doesnt give you some space then you should leave him.
2006-11-30 06:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't dump him he just isn't ready to express his feelings yet give him time or furthermore i think that you should get him started by making a move he sounds super sweet i wouldn't dump him. good luck. xx
2006-11-30 06:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by xx..green..eyed..princess..xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel dont have the boy confused you wouldnt want anyone to have you like that
2006-11-30 06:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hotty
2006-11-30 06:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by funnymasterguy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋