Should i ask him to clear my mind????

Question

I was sort of seeing this guy off and on for a bit. I really liked him, and I'm sure he new that. It was hard for us to get together because we were both busy, and sometimes we wouldn't talk for a while. I think we had a really good connection, and potential for something more. He came over one night out of the blue, and well "u know". I'm pretty sure it was a booty call, but it didn't really go well. He couldn't perform, and then went on to say we'll just have to do it over and over again til it's all good. What happened? I've barely spoken to him since. Why did he give me that impression that he would like more, if he didn't? It was like 2 weeks ago. I should probably let go, but I feel I need at least closure. Should I call him and ask if it was just a booty call, or did he want more til that happened? I really like him.

I know it happens to all men. I don't care about that. I just thought we had something that could be good, and wanna know what's up. But I think too much time has past. If he wanted more, wouldn't he have done something by now?

Answer 1

Maybe he's embarassed about his being unable to perform. If I was you, I would call him one time and one time only to ask him what's up. If I didn't get an answer, I'd move on.

Answer 2

Ok, even the hottest guys get stage fright. Closure? On what, that you weren't hot enough for him to perform? Oh, honey, that's just nature. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Call him if you want and keep the friendship if you can. Don't mention this as he is probably agonizing over it. By the way, it probably had nothing to do with you. It happens to all men.