so I have a girlfriend that is not doing to well making money with her job. She wants to start making adult movies for the quick cash. she is really attractive and sexy with the greatest figure I have every seen. I am not in the same country as her right now cuz I am deployed to another country. should I let her do it? and should I stay with her?
2006-11-30 05:39:08 · 11 answers · asked by krazeetingtong 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a personal choice. Can you live with the fact your girlfriend may "star" in adult movies? Is it something you won't be upset about? Will you look at her differently for doing it? What affect will it have on you and on your relationship with her? Those are questions only you can answer for yourself.
Your girlfriend will decide on her own whether she wants to be in adult movies or not. It is her decision and her body. Naturally I would like to think (as I'm sure you would to) how you felt about it would be an important factor in her decision making. Nevertheless it is her decision to make. If she's already set on doing it then there isn't anything you could do to stop her.
2006-11-30 05:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by smmr27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing adult movies is one step before prostitution. If you are getting paid to have people look at your body, and to do sexual acts with people...it is getting very close. I don't know if that kind of thing is very healthy for a relationship as those are the things YOU share.....I would feel like I was being cheated on. What is more important.....quick cash? Or the heart and souls involved in the most valuable thing you can share with another person? Adult movies are what desensitizes much of the sexuality of those who watch them feeding a false sense of power and intimacy....like a doorway drug, adult movies take the attention away from the relationship and what is being shared.....whne adult movies loose thier luster, whatr is next? Flashing? Feeling strangers? Kids? Sexuality is so powerful, it is not a good idea to mess with it.....tell her you respect her too much to let her use her body that way. Tell her she is whole and beautiful and shouldn't get messed up in that world.
2006-11-30 13:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Reese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. How serious are you with her? that would be a good question to ask yourself. I say you are young, let her do it and enjoy the expierence. Do not marry her! If she would consider Adult Movies because she is not making money at her job, that is not the person you want to have your kids. Adult movie stars are Prostitutes on Film. And trust me, she is already cheating on you. Jody is probably the one talking her into the movies
2006-11-30 13:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's an adult, it's not up to you to "let" her do anything...you just need to decide whether or not what she does is a dealbreaker for you or not. She's her own person, she doesn't answer to you (nor you her). However anyone in a relationship probably doesn't have it as a high priority in their life if they are thinking of have sex with other people for any reason (other than if the couple are swingers and doing it together).
2006-11-30 13:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Anyone that stoops that low to make a buck, will cause you nothing but grief in the long run. Who wants to be with a dirty HO - you need a woman who has values and morals. There a lots of ways to make money without becoming a slut.
2006-11-30 13:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love a bird, set it free,that could be a test of character for her.
2006-11-30 14:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by oluwatobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should you let her do it? what do you have some say so of her life choices? Wow its the all mighty powerful krazeetingtong!!!!!!
She'll do what she wants to do, its up to you whether you can live with her choices.
2006-11-30 13:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it bother you to date a porn star?
if yes then leave her
You can't help her with money she has to do what she needs to do to survive.
2006-11-30 13:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let???? Unless she is under age the choice is hers. Like it or lump it dear.
2006-11-30 13:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to post a link of her pictures first. Then we can tell you.
2006-11-30 13:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋