i met him online, he works days me afternoons, we have weekends together, but he yahoos im other women, and is online alot everynight, and i know what he does he doesnt hide it unless its a conversation he had with another women. it bothers me, he says i can do it if i want, but its not me. what to do , he is very cold at times, and usually cant get off having intercoarse, its like he cybersexs to much??? help what to think?? Carrie
2006-11-30 05:29:46 · 21 answers · asked by buttercup196962 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cheating is wrong. I guess the reason being it involves lying and it hurts other people. Just because he is not inflicting physical pain, it doesn't mean he is not hurting you or neglecting you. Just because he is telling you the truth (maybe not the whole truth) it doesn't mean he is not lying to someone else.
While he may not be cheating in person, (like someone else said) he is cheating emotionally. Besides, if that behavior continues it could escalate (for example meeting people in person).
The bottom line is that if you are not comfortable with it, you have to let him know and if he cares about your feelings he should change (or at least stop doing the things that you don't appreciate). If he is not willing to do things for you or to make you feel better then you should think about moving on.
Good luck.
2006-11-30 05:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Carrie,
Honestly in my humble opinion your boyfriend is screwed up... he needs to detox from the computer for a few months. What it seems like is that he has (probably way before u) been so deep into cybersex that reality is not easy for him. When people cyber, i think they put themselves in a fantasy world, this being said, the real world doesn't meet his mental standard of his fantasy world.
There was a study i read years ago regarding abusive masturbation and it basically stated the same thing.
Find yourself a real guy, one that can connect to u as a person and not just via the internet.
Good luck
2006-11-30 05:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by nick_in_miami 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're comfortable with the situation, do nothing. If not, move on..It's really that simple.....He is absolutely not going to change, in fact, he will get worse. If he is having "cybersex" as you say, what makes you think YOU are the most important thing in his life?? If you keep doing what you're doing, you will keep getting what you've got!
2006-11-30 05:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by DON S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it's consider emotional cheating or something like that. he isn't doing anything physical with another girl but he is having cybersex. I wouldn't be too happy with that.
2006-11-30 05:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of corse cybersex is cheating and I were you I would tell him either stop having cybersex and be with me full and not half way like you are being or tell its over and find someone that will treat you right!!!!!!
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2006-11-30 05:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by sweetmama reppin f.l.a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine it relies upon upon what you and your significant different have agreed upon so a techniques as what your courting includes. in my view, honesty, believe and mutual respect might want to come previously the different high quality. dishonest is once you do something in secret that you comprehend that your significant different would surely evaluate incorrect. some human beings locate no longer something incorrect in having different bedpartners as long as their time-honored loyalty is with their mate--others locate kissing, hugging or flirting with each person except the mate as dishonest. purely how a techniques might want to one carry the idea of dishonest? If cybersex is incorrect even as the different human being will be throughout the time of the rustic or around the international, how about fantacizing about a movie celeb? would your mate locate cyberflirting incorrect if it made him/her extra grew to develop into on for the marital mattress? those are all issues to imagine about and examine such as your mate so that you'll be able to come to three kind of accord. IMHO one might want to by no ability forget it really is what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander--to be truthful, inspite of the actuality that guidelines save on with to one might want to save on with to the different besides!
2016-11-29 23:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating, to me, is any act in which my significant other engages with another person for pleasure. Yes that is cheating to me. Get rid of him. It sounds like he is not going to give it up for you.
2006-11-30 05:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find someone that shares your opinion on the subject.....This big of a difference between the two of you won't work out!
2006-11-30 05:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. cybersex is a form of cheating. cuz he's basically being "sexual intimate" with other ppl. dump the loser and find yourself someone better.
2006-11-30 05:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats really screwed up for jacking off to a TV screen. What has happened to penis in vagina sex?? I think your situation is just going to get worse.
2006-11-30 05:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by dd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋