We aren't having sex...(yet) but we are doing everything else...however...i beginning to get the idea that she is bored with what we are doing...the routine i do admit is a little boring..what is something that I can do to spice it up a little w/o having sex?
2006-11-30 05:09:09 · 11 answers · asked by joej6789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes fingering and oral sex are permitted and we have been doing that pretty much all the time...sex is not frowned upon we just haven't done it yet...shes trying to get on the pill....we have talked and she agrees that things are boring but doesn't seem to say what we could do to spice things up any ideas? any help much appreciated
2006-11-30 05:22:08 · update #1
Why not lay off the sexual stuff altogether? Concentrate on becoming better friends. Do activities together.
If you're not ready to go forward, maybe you should go backwards.
2006-11-30 05:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having oral sex? I need more details. If you don't want to have sex with her just yet, is fingering her permitted? Try that.
2006-11-30 05:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use food..such as honey, chocolate, whipped cream, etc..Blindfold eachother..go visit a sex shop or have a look online im sure you'll find some good ideas.
2006-11-30 05:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Zoopy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why instead of asking us, don't try to ask your gf???talk openly about that and she will tell you.I am in the same situation with my bf but we talk about these things and spice up our relationship.if something bothers her or makes her bored then she will tell you!
2006-11-30 05:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the reason for not doing the nasty? there are lots of ways of having sexual fun without going "all the way".. toys... places.... fun things to wear... fun things to pour on.... etc.
What are her (and your) boundries? is is just vaginal sex that is taboo?
2006-11-30 05:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a thought talk to her while you guys are playing around. touch more then her tit's and lips.
2006-11-30 05:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by J D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with out sex? That's lame. Get a new girlfriend.
2006-11-30 05:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Get her a donkey.
2006-11-30 05:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on dude just bang her already she'll like it and I'm sure you'll like it
2006-11-30 05:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Bubblez707 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
grow up man and have fun. u dont wanna have sex? u suck
2006-11-30 05:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋