He kissed me, he slept with me, and he promised he would never hurt me but when people let it slip about us he said we were just friends getting to know eachother better.Did I read his actions wrong?
2006-11-30 05:01:23 · 24 answers · asked by Baby girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u probably did
he got wat he wanted a girl in the bed and nothing else let him go and before u sleep wid other guys u should probably make sure ur gf/bf
2006-11-30 05:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you but yes.. if you guys never actually talked about being boyfriend/girlfriend or in a relationship then you did read his actions wrong. Most guys are only out for one thing.. and it looks like he got it from you. If your cool with just being friends that are getting to know eachother then stick around.. if your not, move on and find someone else thats worth it.
2006-11-30 05:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Zoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the words "boyfriend". that means that you guys are really close friends (bestfriends) and you and him love to spend time together. He didn't lie when he was getting to know eachother better. Then again, does he always say that around his friends? Does anyone at all know that you guys are together? There are chances that he is just using you to satisfiy his physical needs (sex, passion, kissing, hugging) there is more to a relationship that hugging and kissing. Just because he kisses you and sleeps with you doesn't mean that he really wants to be with you. Does he spend alot of time with you? Does he look you in the eye when he says he would never hury you? is is compassionate to your feelings? That tells alot about a guy. (I should know, I am a guy) There are two types of guys.
Those that are guinuine and those that are good liers and would do anything to get in your pants.
2006-11-30 05:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he said what you wanted to hear at the time. In the throws of passion, men will often say what you want to hear. I am wondering the same thing my self about the guy I hung out with, so I'll be intered in the answers you get.
2006-11-30 05:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun im sorry to say...the DID have some kind of feelings....but only enough to sleep wit u... Im sorry about that but its true... ive been there, done that and i own the t-shirt..... dont even stress him... the way to get back at him....only if u want to hurt him... is tell ur friends he was bad in bed....
2006-11-30 05:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by shannyshanny79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say. It sounds like he's keeping his options open. Most likely what he told his friends is true. If he's already slept with you before being in a committed relationship, I would expect his committment to be to deep.
2006-11-30 05:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave it up to soon maybe. Us women sometimes confuse love with lust. We may mean love and sometimes the guy well...only want to get some. Sorry about what happened. Now you know for next time.
2006-11-30 05:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Pretti Poodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to take it slowly and he doesn't consider the both of you as a couple. Talk to him and ask him what's going on and hopefully the both of you can work things out! Good luck!
2006-11-30 05:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes girl he was trying to get him some. Cut your losses and leave him alone.
2006-11-30 05:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by honey_kisses86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will say, do, and promise anything, with only one goal in mind. He succeeded. Please learn well, from this experience. It's part of becoming a woman!
2006-11-30 05:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's a jerk. I am sorry to say, but i think he played you. He got what he wanted and now he's done with you. Good luck next time. Sorry about your luck!!!!
2006-11-30 05:06:13 · answer #11 · answered by Bubblez707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋