This is always a tough one especially when you hook up for the first time...Now if it's a one night thing then it doesn't matter, I say do whatever you want but if you are acctually interested in someone you want to make the first encounter a pleasent one....I usually play the slow soft game up front but really I just want to throw her around...
Ladies...survey says..................................?
2006-11-30 04:58:16 · 32 answers · asked by Dave B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mmmmmmmmm true
2006-11-30 05:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would have to say that is FALSE...
I mean, aside form the fact that some women have had BAD experiences that they could be painfully reminded of in such a case. It is impossible to put everyone in a box like that. Sure, SOME women like it, but on the other side SOME men really like soft and gentle love-making too...
There are no easy answers but I would say to take it VERY carefully and see how she responds to things a little more active (not sure what the right word would be there).
Also, this is a hard question to answer because what exactly does "rough sex' mean? It means different things to differnt people. To some people it means whips and chains and to others it means t4aring off of clothes...
Bottom line - NO most of the women I know DO NOT like "rough sex" especially when that involves pain of any kind. However, that being said, there are, of course, many women who do like such things, but either way just "taking her and throwing her around a bit" is probably NOT the best option, especially if you do not KNOW for certain where she stands on the issue...
Really, I would suggest taking things cautiously, maybe be a bit more foreceful than usual and see how she repsonds, without being VIOLENT... for most women that is a turn-off, not to mention it can be VERY SCARY and if you really care about this girl, or any girl, you should NOT want to scare them...
Good luck to you and your Girlfriend...
2006-11-30 05:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that men in their 20 and 30s are so much more immature than they were say 20 years ago. They are like big boys wanting to play with their toys and have a good time. Their parents have spoiled them and supported them for the better part of their life and as a consequence by the time they reach 30 they are about where adult males were when they were 20. You are better off to go for someone who is much older like 40 who will be more age appropriate for you. Women have always been a lot more mature than men probably because we have to be. Also maybe you are just a bit too pushy. Stop trying to push men into a commitment fastest way to scare them off.
2016-05-23 05:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
False
2006-11-30 04:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i had to pick one it would be rough. I lik them both. I love to thrown down and pulled by this long dark brown hair and talked dirty to. Something about rough sex just turn me on. I lik for him to do it nice, slow and passionate the first couple of times and thats wuts up!!!!!!
2006-11-30 05:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lil' Foot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what mood we are in. Sometime I want to make love--slow and soft. Then there are times (usually more times than not) that I want it rough.
2006-11-30 05:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by CCDCC 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay...I would say yes. Something about rough sex is "forbidden" and exciting. However...don't let it get to a point where you stop making love. It is very important to a woman to have passionate and senual sex with her signifigant other or she might start feeling used.
2006-11-30 07:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find rough sex, not pain, to be a real turn on. But it tends to be over quickly. Passionate, stimulating, get the blood pumping is what I am looking for...
2006-11-30 05:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by Real Beotch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUE!!! omg true! lol. rough sex is the best sex. soft and slow is nice at times...but it's way more fun down and dirty. but the thing is, every women is different as you can see from your results.
2006-11-30 05:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False! Are you wanting to get charged with assault and battery? Tell the woman what you want to do and exchange roles. Let her throw you around and hit on you and see it you like it.
2006-11-30 05:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jusme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer for "most women." I can only answer for me.
I like it soft, slow and deep. I also like it passionate, hard, and a bit rough. I enjoy knowing I push all his buttons.
2006-11-30 05:01:01 · answer #11 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋