I want to say it but I think its too soon.
2006-11-30 04:57:42 · 22 answers · asked by anon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until it feels right to you, but do not wait forever. It can be too soon, but who knows what constitutes that? Certainly within the first minute is too soon, perhaps as well as the first day or first week. Each relationship is going to be unique with respect to when and how; the joys of falling in love and hoping the feeling is mutual.
Why do you think it is too soon? You may have a valid reason or reasons, like she specifically said something like, "I am beginning to like you more", that would sure tell me to hold off a bit more. You can obviously say it whenever you want, but I think you have showed a little wisdom with respect to the potential for it to be too soon.
2006-11-30 04:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by gare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it all depends on the type of relationship you have with the person. If you say it too soon it might scare the other person away. You just need to decide if the person cares a lot about you. You can tell by the things the person does, such as if they want to see you very often, if they call you a lot. Actually, instead of telling the person you love them, you can show them that you love them. Actions speak louder than words. Did you know that 80% of communication is not verbal, meaning it's not what you say its what you do. I bet you if you show them love then wait a while to say it it won't be much of a shock to them. Actually, my Man shows me he loves me very much. He shows me everyday to the point where I want to tell him that I love him. Now how about that.
2006-11-30 05:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit. If you truly feel love, tell them. It is NEVER too soon. But.... it can be too late! If you feel this person may feel pressured, be sure to explain as you break this wonderful news of love, that you do not want to rush into anything or make this person feel pressured or smothered. That you are simply expressing your true feelings and that you wish to give this person breathing room in hopes that one day the feeling will be mutual. Good luck.
2006-11-30 05:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure it really is love before you say it. if its for real, it wont diminish by waiting for a while before expressing it. let your actions and your attitude speak for you--love is nothing if it doesnt have words and deeds to back it up. maybe let the person feel the love you have for them before you tell them. you dont say how old you are or how long youve been dating. what kind of vibes are you getting from this guy/girl? do you believe the feeling is mutual? time is the truest test, so dont feel rushed or impatient. believe me, if this person loves you too, there not gonna ditch you just cuz you havent said "I love you" yet.
2006-11-30 05:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by mickey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a guy should never tell a women you love them! After saying those words something clicks in her head and suddenly the mystery and romance of your relationship is gone.
2006-11-30 05:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i broke up with a guy who told me after about a month maybe 1.5. I told him that was too fast etc.. he stuck around and then we began dating after amonth and then he told me again asap and I lied to him about loving him for a month and a half. I felt like i had to say it or he'd be gone. Lol
3months is best
2006-11-30 06:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never too soon if you feel it you should say it. But I wouldn't expect them to say it in return. Just let them know and say that you don't expect them to say it back you just had to tell them how you felt.
2006-11-30 05:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like it is the right time to say I Love You then go for it even if their feelings are not as strong s yours. Their is no such thing as being to early to say I Love You!
2006-11-30 05:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by sugahbabies42291 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love them is easy, being in love takes much more time. Tell them you love them and care for them when you start feeling it.
2006-11-30 04:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it...Especially if you mean it from the bottom of your heart. You cant put a time on love.
2006-11-30 05:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Pretti Poodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋