long distance because he admits that he likes me alot and sometimes we have phone sex so i need to figure out what this is?
2006-11-30 04:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by Henrriette S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this to me sounds more like friends with benefits than anything else!i would not say that it is a long distance relationship since you two are not together anymore and heck who knows what is going on in his life that he is not telling you about like maybe he has a gf or something like that! second of all he is there to call you because he knows that you will pick up the phone and to him you seem vulnerable and naive! plus ex's dont do what you guys do especially with phone sex and what-not! yes, my ex bf which is now my bf again when we broke up we talked on the phone everyday and i dont think that it was the right thing to do! in my opinion this is a messed up thing! he either wants to be with you or he does not! there is not the middle of "i am not sure" but i will play friends with benefits and screw her! you two still have feelings for each other yet you have to remember that there is a reason why you guys broke up and why he is your ex! remain on good terms with him but not with phone sex and everything else! you are wasting your time with this guy and you should be living your life and dating and having fun!
2006-11-30 04:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he talk about visiting you? or does he just use you to have phone sex? Its one thing for him to say that he likes your alot, but does he show it? ask him if he wants to visit or thinks about visiting anytime soon. There is no such thing as a long distance relationship if its only filled with conversations OVER the PHONE. Either you visit him or he visits you every once and a while. that will make if a long distance relationship. Get to know his friends so you know how he truly is. You can tell alot about his personality by the type of friends he hangs around with.
2006-11-30 04:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer attempting to decrease your feeling, although what you're dealing with is grief, and a broken heart. It does get extra effectual in time and additionally you will have the potential to pass on. i'm thinking approximately all that waiting you probably did, all that wasted time. additionally it seems such as you're stunning, he's growing to be to be a stoner. Is that what you desire on your existence? I doubt it. i visit anticipate the this new female, maximum probable, shares the comparable hobbies. If the flaws he says harm then you definitely that's time to renounce chatting with him. that's time to start letting pass. you're commencing up a clean financial ruin on your existence and that college is a huge element of it. And he drops out of college. I advise fairly what do you have in consumer-friendly anymore. It looks like no longer something. this could no longer be your purely broken heart on your existence. on the different hand, there'll be hearts which you will ruin. this is merely element of relationship, romance and the emotional element of existence. there is not any way around it, merely enable time do the therapeutic, and that i promise you, this is going to. there is coming an afternoon which you will no longer understand what you observed in him. Universities are super places with a lot of possibilities for each thing. merely experience the hurricane by using, and stay remote from him, you do no longer desire that. If he does ruin up with that different female, and that could desire to take place. Then he starts coming around, says he needs you back, he made a huge mistake, Blah, Blah, Blah, DON"T DO IT! this is over and that's time so which you would be able to pass on, to advance and alter, and mature. wait and notice, you will do merely superb, I promise you. every person has been there and has come out somewhat smarter from the ordeal.
2016-12-29 17:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him what you status is and where you stand. Tell him how you feel about him, and if the feelings are mutual and if this isn't infatuation, then turn what you have into a long distance relationship. It is not a relationship in till you don't question or doubt it and you feel it in your heart.
2006-11-30 04:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by myka bellisari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm roughly 900 miles or so...yes i would say that's long distance......phone sex is just that.....meaningless sex really....means absolutely nothing.....i would say "he's just not that into you"....that is the name of a book i suggest you go and buy it, read it and practice it...it will change your life and keep you from repeating these bad mistakes.....drop the loser......sorry.
2006-11-30 04:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to ask him that. the same rules apply as in a reagular relationship. he can't be dating other people and neither can you. if i had i girlfriend and found out she was haveing phone sex with her X , i'd be pissed and dump her immediatly.
2006-11-30 04:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maintaining the bridge
2006-11-30 04:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Wael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this maybe called friends with benifits relationship. if you want more why wont u talk to him about it
2006-11-30 04:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ikemefuna s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love him if you do ask him to come back and live with you forever
2006-11-30 04:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by Theresa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋