My children are grown, I don't have a lot of friends, don't do the bar scene and I don't club hop (yeh, I know that makes me sound old) but I'm just trying to get back out there in adult world and find new adventures with new & exciting people.
2006-11-30 04:45:13 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi lady, Ya know I am kinda the same boat. Ive been married twice, the first one for 14 years. She is a great lady and all but we just grew apart. The second one was right after my first!!!!!!!! Bad judgment on my part! I found my second wife, I think too soon, because I was so lonely. Ive been divorced from her for almost 4 years and Im very happy. I said all that to say this, I dont know your whole situation but after my second divorce I realized it was my turn. I didnt have a lot of friends and found myself at home a lot cleaning or reading a good book. Now that sounds boring , but I was content at that time. I needed more, as well as you, I wanted to have some fun , as you I didnt get in the bar scenes so I thought I was limited. Well guess what , the few friends I did have were waiting for me to ask the same question you asked. First I started going to football games with friends then to some races and now we have a group that meets every saturday at rotating houses to watch the races and socialize. Ive really found a great group of friends both new and old and havent been to a bar yet. My advice to you is to turn to your friends and tell them your delima. I guess my answer is FRIENDS! By the way Im 43 and now scuba dive, play tennis and many other things all due to my few friends! good luck , you sound like a great lady
2006-11-30 05:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by wildone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try an online dating service such as match.com.
Get involved in things where men participate
such as co-ed volleyball, workout or classes at YMCA,charity work, singles clubs, etc.
2006-11-30 12:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you --- in every aspect ---- i have used the online sites (well one mainly --- its been the most fun) and found a new lady by accident --- i suspect that most of the people are not worth knowing --- thats my opinion anyway --- not worth knowing better -- have only found 1 or 2 i would want to socialise with let alone get into a relationship with
2006-11-30 12:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you could join a health club or learn a new dance like salsa dancing that way you could start meeting new people how about sports? there is so much to do and I don't think your old now is time for you to enjoy your life. good luck and have fun...
2006-11-30 12:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Itza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come to Las vegas there are lots of shows and dining and entertainment if you need someone to show you around email me
2006-11-30 12:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me an e-mail
2006-11-30 12:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Wael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a 47 year old male. when you find out, you let me know.
2006-11-30 12:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by nbr1_nightstalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me hun(-:
2006-11-30 12:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋