My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE HASNT CONTACTD ME SINCE 15DAYS. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN
2006-11-30 04:44:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously stay away from this person, if he is abusive you shouldn't be anywhere near him, NO CONTACT. If he is abusive why would you want to be around him? He sounds verbally abusive as well you can do better than that. Find a happy healthy relationship and forget him!
2006-11-30 04:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him to? I hope not. :P If he does, tell him - politely - to leave you alone and stop contacting you. If he doesn't cooperate, have your parents do something about it. There is no reason for anyone to treat you like that, especially if you're young and still living at home.
Obviously, this guy has issues and I would stay as far away from him as possible. There's no shame in letting Mom and Dad deal with freaks who threaten to physically harm you. Good grief.
2006-11-30 04:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep allowing this to happen? Change your phone number or have his number blocked so that he can't call or text message you. And tell your parents what he is doing. And don't reply to his messages or talk to him. Just stay away from him.
2006-11-30 04:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the police and get a restraining order. Hopefully you saved the text messages, because then you literally have his threats in writing.
2006-11-30 04:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Block his #....don't have anything to do with this man. If you do, you must like the abuse. This is unacceptable behavior. Don't answer him. Just ignore him. Because, of course he is going to continue this behavior because he is abusive.
Good luck!!
2006-11-30 04:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Vanity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can you say restaining order. get off the crack and move out of the trailer park. I'm sure the carnioval just left town and he went with it.
2006-11-30 04:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by Chazz Drizzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
block his number
save these msgs bc u might have a harrassment cause or proof of hte abuse if it does happen.
2006-11-30 04:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by jenivive 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋