how do i get out of a relation ship that do not go any were but that is very loving?

Answer 1

The grass is always greener, isn't it? You have a loving relationship but want out? I don't understand, many people would be happy to trade places with you. Too many people are too quick to leave someone if they come to a "boring" part of the relationship. I suggest you have a talk with her before leaving.

Answer 2

First sit down with her and see if you want it to go somewhere, and what direction that might be. Marriage? kids? a business together? If you can't find anything that helps you grow as a couple, maybe you're happy where you are. Is there some regular period of time you can do something on your own? a hobby perhaps. Don't fix it if it ain't broke. If you really feel like your stuck, then you can consider not seeing each other. Breaking up doesn't have to be painful drama.

Answer 3

well many people face this in the real world.. it is very real.. one thing that you are doing is dealing with your comfort zone.. of course we all want to be loved .. who doesnt right? i would pick getting loved at least by someone than no one at all. but it is unfair for the other person because they may have true feelings for you when you do not have them at all.. to stay in the relationship is very selfish and untrue.. be honest with this person and they will respect you so much more.. we are put on this earth to meet up with one soul mate.. not everyone is going to click with every person they meet up with.. sometimes its just not there.. your better off being friends.. sit them down very nicely and be honest.. all it takes.. it will hurt regardless.. but i promise they will appreciate your honesty versus doing it some other way... ignoring them, stop calling them, being mean ... so they will run away and not you.. be the mature one and get out :) wish you the best of luck!

Answer 4

to what extent do you mean loving??? and what makes you so sure that it is not going to go anywhere? if it is because you are not satisfied try to end it without hurting the other person like for example "I am not ready to be in a serious relationship and you are a very nice person and i do not want to hurt you".
if you want it to go somewhere and the other person does not want, make sure that it is not going anywhere and end it. if there is real love between you two, it might get somewhere

Answer 5

simple say bye tell him you need more from a relationship and right now you feel that you need to spread your wings and soar cause something is not there but remember the key to a relationship is communication can you talk to him counseling but sometimes you just need more than love you need someone who is a little opposite to bring out that fire explain nothing personal you just have to follow your life's path cause 10 yrs from now you don't want to wondering what if so tell him exactly what is on your mind just remember he has feeling don't drag him in the mud if he has been loving and good to you

Answer 6

I am not sure why you would want to but if you do please tell the person the truth just as you have said here. Tell him or her that while this is a loving relationship you want something else, more, whatever it is that you are looking for. Be kind but be honest.

Answer 7

If it's a very loving relationship, then why do you want to leave? Think before you act, and decide if you really want to leave this person because he/she is not exciting enough for you.

~~Naomi

Answer 8

if the relationship is so loving, then why would you want to get out of it? you don't always have to get some where in a relationship. just njoy your time with that person and have fun.

Answer 9

depends on what you are expecting from this relationship , if all you want is loving then hang in there , other wise eventually get out

Answer 10

you have to break it off, the guy is not going to see it comming.. I just went through this with my ex