Love is more then just feeling it, or trusting a person, it's more then what you think you should feel when you're in it. Love has fooled me many times and I've thought I was in love but really I wasn't. Today with my hubby, I finally know real true love. A love that I never felt before. If you are or are not a religious person you should read how the Bible defines love in 1Corinthians 13:4-7..it's a beautiful description of what love is and how it is. I knew I loved my hubby becasue I changed, I felt a change in myself. It wasn't so much what HE did...it was what I did for him and for myself. I looked at him with admiration, I accepted him for who his was without finding fault in him and we compromised and we are bestfriends. No matter WHAT COMES we stay together and don't leave...we NEVER give up and even when we are disappointed in each other we still hold one another at high esteem. I knew I loved him because I prayed for him and when he came into my life he was all I prayed for and then he was so much more...God blessed me with things in him that I never dreamed of asking for in a mate. That's how I knew I was in love. Love isn't always what you expect it to be sometimes falling in love has a whole lot to do with the UNEXPECTED!!!
2006-11-30 04:41:25
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answered by Jontue 2
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You know you're 'in love' when you think about that person throughout the day, when you wake up, and when you go to sleep. You'll know when you want to call that person first when anything bad happens to you, *and* when anything good happens to you. If you can talk to him/her about everything, if you can confide your dreams, hopes, and fears in him/her, and you can trust that person implicitly with your secrets and your life, then you have probably found love. It's accepting who they are now -- flaws, faults, and all -- and who they will be in the future. Love has empathy and compassion, it makes you want to cheer up the object of your affections and help them fix the things that are wrong in his/her life. Love is passionate and strong, and it's a feeling you won't be able to miss when it happens to you because suddenly you see your relationship as part of something greater in life.
I hope you have found it, there's no better experience in the world, even when it's breaking your heart. :)
2006-11-30 12:28:13
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answered by Liz 4
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First tou have to love yourself before you can love him. But you know you in love when you think about that person everyday and night. Also you can just feel it. He/she calls every night just to talk about any thing.
2006-11-30 12:23:45
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answered by angle2005star 4
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When you feel torn up inside when they're gone, but you feel an aching in your heart when youre around them. If you're with them though, that aching turns into a warm feeling. (Don't ask how a guy knows this, it'll fry your brain!)
2006-11-30 12:20:10
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answered by Diagonal 2
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U have different kind of feeling for that person!!!
Good luck with love
2006-11-30 12:20:23
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answered by two boyz 2
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thats not a qeution we can answer. but its a great feeling and i just cant explain it... do you feel like you would give your life for your partner? would you do anything to make him happy? do you smile when you talk to him/her on the phone? if yes your in love!!its a feeling you will never forget!!!
2006-11-30 12:20:47
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answered by little_attractive_kitty 2
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when the simple thought and the sound of their voice brings a smile to your face. you think about them, care and worry for them and you put their feelings way up there...that is love!!
2006-11-30 12:29:58
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answered by reina l 1
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With me, it was when I couldn't stop thinking of her. I could tell and trust her with anything. I'd dream about her, you know? I was in love, whipped, smitten, caught up. Trust me, you'll feel it and know.
2006-11-30 12:24:06
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answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5
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When all you can do is think about them, when all you can think about is being with them, when all you can feel is them, when your ready to say, o.k. I wanna marry this one, Thats how you know :)
2006-11-30 12:21:43
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answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4
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You get this feeling inside. you cant think of no one else. just thinking of that person puts a smile on your face. you just feel it.
2006-11-30 12:21:24
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answered by Babe 2
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