ok so there is this girl that i really like...but she is one of my best friends...then one night when us and a few other friends were hanging out she wouldn't go near me really..and that was weird because everytime we would hangout we would just cuddle and watch a movie with other
friends and what not..then the next day she told me that her friend likes me...and that the friend has never had a boyfriend...so i explained to her how i feel that i like her and not her friend...she was like aww thats really sweet and she said she was happy...but then she told me that she couldn't do that to her friend......so i guess what i'm asking is if she likes me...and if so how can i get her to move forward into a relationship with me?
2006-11-30 04:15:19 · 5 answers · asked by Bildo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This takes me back to my Best Guy Friend......he was my friend i'd call when i didnt have anything else to do, he was my cuddle buddy, and we hung out a lot. Well I liked him alot and everyone said he like me as well but we were like hot and cold because we did not want to ruin our friendship! So we would set each other up on dates and it sucked, but to this day we are so greatful we didnt push or relatioship farther because we are such good friends. I'm married now and he's not but we still talk and hang out and my husband likes him as well. So first ask yourself, do you really like her in the way of a girlfriend or do you just like her like a very very good friend that is always there so you feel that you guys can connect on a different level? To me it sounds like yes she likes you but is she willing to put herself out there hurt your friendship and hurt her friend? No cause she values your friendship so so much! Things like this you just need to go with the flow, some people like this end up having great relationships eventually but others try to force it and ruin the friendship, so just let it flow you've let her know how you feel now just enjoy being with her and having a great friend. It will all work out the way it should. Good Luck!
2006-11-30 04:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by roxygurl1307 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT REALLY KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU... I MEAN SHE THINKS ITS CUTE AND I AM SURE SHE LIKES YOU BEACUASE SHE WOULD HAVE GIVEN YOU A NEGATIVE RESPONSE.. THIS IS WHAT I THINK YOU SHOULD DO.. GIVE HER SOME TIME AND LET HER THINK.. WOMEN THINK ABOUT ALMOST EVERYTHING.. AFTER SOME TIME TALK TO HER AGAIN AND EXPLAIN TO HER I SEE YOUR VALID POINT OF NOT WANTING TO HURT YOUR FRIEND I LIKE YOU AND I BELIVE I CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT DONT BE FORCEFUL WITH HER I MYSELF HATE IT WHEN A GUY DOES THAT AND TELL HER HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO YOU AND THAT TO THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE SAYING AND THAT IF SHE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP TO NOT HOLD BACK BECUASE OF HER FRIEND!
GOOD LUCK SWEETY WISH YOU ALL THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!! :))
2006-11-30 12:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by saved 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The #1 thing i can tell u is simply that u do not rush her. next just talk to her and see who that friend iz, because that iz what iz throwing u off.
2006-11-30 12:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by nelle boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push it buddy. if she really wants to get involved with you she will come to you. Yes she likes you and now that she knos that you like her she might come on more or back off because she knos that her friend likes you. She DEFINITLY likes you tho.
2006-11-30 12:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls care more about their friends' feelings than getting a guy. sorry, but if she doesn't want to hurt her friend she probably will not date you, at least for now.
2006-11-30 12:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by jammin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋