okay... he went to camp for some training.. and i didnt want him to go.. soo when he was at camp since i was alone i went out alot and id call him and leve him a voice mail everynite to update him... one of those little sweet things so that he doesnt foreget about me... so he comes home listens to tehm and starts acusing me of cheating.. cuhs i sounded so happy while he was gone .... lik e i was with someone else... why is he doing this?? cush i know while he was at camp alotuh girls were flirting with him too... so why cant i flirt?? and why is he accusing me... ??
2006-11-30 04:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
insecurities. were you cheating?
2006-11-30 04:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by babycalirotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.... BIG FLASHING RED LIGHT SHOULD BE GOING OFF FOR YOU! When someone starts accusing someone else of cheating for NO apparent reason... Usually this is a HUGE SIGN of a guilty concious. I'll bet 30 bucks he cheated ON YOU! And is accusing you of it. THIS IS so common among cheaters. Make the innocent feel guilty so they dont have to. Id confront him, and ask him.
2006-11-30 04:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A feels guilty, so he accuses you. Guys do it all the time. If they are screwing around they start blaming their gf or wife so they don't feel so bad. If he doesn't know you well enough to know you wouldn't do that, y'all need to communicate more. If he keeps accusing you, move on. There are more fish in the sea.
2006-11-30 04:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Becky F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to hate me for saying this, but typically the guys who jump to those conclusions are hiding their own indiscretions. So what, you were happy when he was gone? Good for you! You didn't do anything wrong while he was gone, and he has no reason to suspect you, unless he's hiding something.
Ask him.
~~Naomi
2006-11-30 04:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by lighted_crystal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both way too insecure with each other not to mention too young to be in a committed relationship. He probably doesn't trust you because he was poking around where he shouldn't have been poking. Typical man tries to turn it around to abolish himself.
2006-11-30 04:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe this could be a case of him feeling guilty about something he has done and transferring those feelings onto you to cover up what he has done.
2006-11-30 04:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so you just admitted that you were flirting. You both are wrong for doing that. You guys need to make up your minds on whether or not you guys can be mature and loyal.
2006-11-30 04:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is completly insecure and really this kind of behavior is indicitive of a man with real issues .......I think you are best to just cut out and say sorry , I cant be in a relationship where there is no trust .bye bye
2006-11-30 04:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, he's a freak & it will only get worse.... much worse.
If you did cheat the shut up moaning if not ditch him & go get some this weekend
2006-11-30 04:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by MrBret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated and is taking his guilt out on you
2006-11-30 04:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by slaphappypimp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure, jealous, paranoid & controlling..
He will probably not change..
You need to find another b/f ..
Move on...
2006-11-30 04:17:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋