Only had three dates with the guy and he's a musician on the brink of success therefore works long hours and really focussed! Not sure if he's just really busy or not interested but sounds enthusiastic when we do see or speak to each other
2006-11-30 04:04:20 · 34 answers · asked by Vicstix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 weeks does not sound like he is very interested...
2006-11-30 04:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends on how serious you were prior to the split up.. if it was pretty randon when you guys seen each other or talked to each other.. i would say its no big deal.. otherwise if you did see each other quite often or talked.. yes consider this done.. some men are just not MAN enough to tell a woman they are not interested or attracted to them.. sometimes we just aren't meant to be.. we are meant to find one soul mate in our lives so don't make it a must to figure out whats gone wrong.. it has nothing to do with you.. some men are not ready to settle down and they run away instead of talk about the relationship.. however, he may be busy and not think twice about it.. bottom line.. call him up? have you called him? ask him if he is still interested.. hadn't heard from him in a while? act as if no big deal.. guys do not like to be smothered nor rushed.. hope this helps and wish you the best of luck!
2006-11-30 04:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous Wife 24F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a musician, therefore he's on a planet of his own and loves his music more than any woman. And if he's on the 'brink of success' (as so many of them are - in their heads anyway) then he's not gonna want commitment.
I'd move on if I were you...
2006-11-30 04:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 2 minute phone call to say "hello and I'm thinking of you" only takes 2 minutes. If he hasn't had 2 minutes in 2 weeks, then I don't think he's really that interested. He might have other things going on "other" than his music.
2006-11-30 04:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, take the hint he's just not that into you, if he was he would climb over mountains, and swim over streams to keep you in his line of vision, and once he had you he might show a lack of interest or he might keep up the attention, but to do it at the offset,I don't think so. Do yourself a favour start looking around for his replacement.
2006-11-30 04:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by bty912324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think things are going anywhere. Two weeks is a long time and he could call on weekends, mornings, evenings during his break at the studio or something. Id start looking else where.
2006-11-30 04:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by Questionis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still is interested but i am a musician too and the hours are long so it is just hes busy
2006-11-30 04:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if he at least doesn't call for that long he has other options.If a guy is only interested in you he will at least call a lot if not want to see you no matter how busy at work he is.
2006-11-30 04:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by SarahF 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody can be just too busy! If it's been 2 weeks I would call him a friend and move on
2006-11-30 04:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by rockinshewolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you say hes a busy man, then it could be that very thing, and hes just not had the time to call you, either that of hes giving you the cold shoulder, i really hope not for your sake, very best of luck!!!!!.xxx
2006-11-30 04:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by clicky j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is 2weeks 2 long. if he liked you he would have made time and kept up a regular contact with you even if very brief due to a hectic life. sorry but are you going to wait for someone who doesnt prioritise you? you are worth better than that
2006-11-30 04:19:27 · answer #11 · answered by DesertRose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋