How do I get a guy to notice me and ask me out?

Question

i like this guy and i want to ask him out but im nervous. how do i get over being nervous

Answer 1

the thing that attracts me most in a lady is confidence. i love to see a lady comfortable in her own skin and is happy whether she's with someone or not. my advice is to live your life to the fullest and to take care of you first. the rest should just take care of itself. if he doesn't notice you, then that's his loss. good luck!

Answer 2

i have the same problem, the only way to stop the nerves is to find out for sure he likes you back. The only reason why u may be nervous is cos he might say no, but if you find out before hand if he likes you and wants to go out with you then u wont be nervous when u do go to ask him out because u no he will say yes! goodluck i wish u both well xx

Answer 3

You have to learn to get over the thought of getting shot down. A lot of guys have this problem too, I even struggled with it for a while. You just have to get the nerve and do it. You are going to have to push yourself to just go up and start talking to him. If you two start talking, he will probably get interested and then ask you out.

Answer 4

Accidentally ;-) run into him somewhere. Say, "we are having a cookout at my house wanna come?" or "have you seen the new movie ------whatever is playing----- "and if he say's no say, "wanna come with me?" If he says yes, ask him if it was good, what did he like best/worst about it. The more you talk with him the easier it will get. Don't wait on him to ask you, ask him. The worst thing that can happen is he say's no. Then you can quit wasting your time on him and move on. Good Luck!

Answer 5

bite the bullet and just ask him...the worst he can say is no. If he does move on to someone else..if he doesn't.....

Answer 6

have a glass of wine first

Answer 7

be natural