I gave my boyfriend a second chance but i know hes gonna cheaet on me again but i really love him and i dont want to leave him.but hes also known to cheat on every girl hes with.i love him to mych to let go!!help?plz!
2006-11-30 04:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well unless you want to be with someone who will cheat on you and you can never trust then stay with him. My advice would be to get out of the relationship. Why would you want to waste your time on someone who doesnt care about you or your feelings??? Get out of that mess. In time a good guy will come along and treat you with the love and respect that you deserve. Dont waste another minute on this loser...
2006-11-30 04:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by parrothead2371 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love him and not want to leave him but you need to realize he doesn't love you and will never love you the way you deserve. We all find it hard to let go of those we love but when they don't respect us or the relationship we have with them then ultimately we are better off with out them. Do you really want to stay in a relationship with someone who will always cheat on you and never make you number one in their lives? You deserve better, don't settle for this guy.
2006-11-30 04:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting up with being treated this way? you must not like yourself very much. You have to remember your self worth and you deserve to be treated with respect. You teach people how to treat you...so you are showing him that he can cheat or do whatever he wants to you and you'll still be there waiting for him. That's not what love should be like. When someone cares about you, they worry about your feelings and want to take care of you, noty tear you down. Loving him isn't a good enough reason for putting up with being mistreated. You will learn one day when you meet someone who knows how to treat a lady...then you'll see what love is really like. Right now you are in a one sided relationship. Please take care of yourself and dump this guy.
2006-11-30 04:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to decide if you are willing to let him cheat on you all the time or not. If you dont want to leave him then stop complaining that he cheats on you all the time and forget about it. If you aren't willing to accept then find sombody who is worthy of being with you.
2006-11-30 04:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of this relationship before he gives a sexually transmitted disease. Most of them are curable, but not all of them. Do you really want to risk getting HIV (aids)? This one will kill you. Do you want genital herpes? This one won't kill you but there is NO CURE. Also, why would you love a man so much that has no respect for you? Get a man who knows how to treat a lady right.
2006-11-30 04:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want help with ? We cant make him stop cheating and neither can you. If you choose to stay with him knowing he cheats then you need to deal with it. Otherwise the only thing you can do that makes sense is drop him.
2006-11-30 04:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u gotta dump him! he is no good! u shouldn't have given him a second chance!! now he knows that u wont dump him, so he is just going to hurt you more and more!! kick him to the curve girl!!! u can do it!!u can find a much better man that has the same looks or maybe even better!
2006-11-30 04:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by hunterjumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out i know you dont want to listen but if he really loved you he wouldnt do this see my girl ...ex girl has had me wating to figure out what she wants and we have stayed loyal to each other even though we arnt tech. dating so if he cant controll him self and grow up a little find a real man
2006-11-30 04:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what help are you seeking? what good is asking for help from someone else if you aren't trying to sincerely help yourself?
you can leave him. but for some reason you choose to stay.
2006-11-30 04:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by The First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you wanna do this to yourself? Leave his a.ss, dont p.iss around with guys like that, there are plenty of Boy's out there for you
2006-11-30 04:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋