do you think its wrong that my bf went to a strip club with his friends and he was drunk and went to a party after words where there were strippers and grils and i couldnt go because i was at work. it pissed me off that he went . but i couldnt do anything. he told me that he didnt talk to any girl. but i just dont understand why he would go.
2006-11-30 03:58:22 · 9 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Frankly, he's just your boyfriend, he's not your husband. He can do whatever he pleases.
2006-11-30 04:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some day women are gonna need to learn that a strip club is and has never been a place to meet women. The women dancing for your are sweet and nice because "THEY WANT YOUR MONEY." Only in rare instances will a guy get to date one of them. It sounds like you have indulge in this type of entertainment with him before. Most stripper get pissed when women that are not lesbians enter a club, because you take attention away from them which takes money out of their pocket and tuition doesn't get paid.
For what its worth, at least you knew where he was and what he was do and who he was doing it with. Stop hatin on him just because you had to work. To be jealous of your man because he went to a strip club and you didn't, in a word, "GETOVERIT!
Right now I am about to speak for myself other guys may be different. First things first, I don't let any women tell men where I can go or what I can do or decide who I should be friends with and I extend that same courtesy to her.
2006-11-30 04:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is going to look.. its only natural.. as bad as I hate it.. I know we all LOOK... taking it to another level is a whole nother ballgame.. if he makes this consistent, and you don't like it you just need to simply sit him down and say hun you know this just makes me feel a little uncomfortable about our relationship.. maybe makes you feel like he can't be trusted.. if he doesn't try to compromise and make things better and help the relationship then he doesn't care enough to savage the relationship anyhow.. if your uncomfortable with the strip club... make that a point instead of making going with the guys an issue.. all men and women need space whether we think we do or not.. so just make it clear its not that you don't want him with the guys its the whole stripper issue.. ever thought about going with him.. that way you know what he is like in that environment.. if he holds it against you to where you can't ever go, then i would make it a concern .. wish you the best of luck sweetie.. your not the only one.. many women out there are in the same ball game.. just sit him down :)
2006-11-30 04:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous Wife 24F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 13:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've experience this situation before with my hubby. He hasn't been since but he went because he was with his friends and they went. Sometimes it's hard for guys to be individuals when they are around their friends. I explained to him how it hurt me and if that would be something he would want me to do. He quickly said no and i let him know it was disrespectful. He hasn't been since and tries not to get into situations with his friends where they may end up there. He knows that if it happens again then that means he reallly doesn't respect me or our relationship. ~~~~~ if he really cares about how you feel then he will listen and he will not jeprodize your relationship by doing it again.
2006-11-30 04:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jontue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get out with the boys its something us dude have to do to feel manly if he penis didnt smell like stripper juice # 5 lol and he had no sings of cheating it all good hunny he came home to you and thats all he needs
2006-11-30 04:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a humteen hundred reasons why he did that. The problem is that he hurt your feelings by doing it. Wrong or right, I think you should let him no that his behavior didn't make you comfortable with him. Communicate with him. At least try to anyway ; )
2006-11-30 04:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by elliott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend thinks it OK to degrade women for money.that's why hes looking at strippers. he probably doesn't respect you either or he wouldn't have done it. but some girls like the abuse. what kind of girl are you?
2006-11-30 04:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just guys....
2006-11-30 04:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋