I am currently emailing a guy that I never met for the last 4 months. I don't consider him a boyfriend. I don't have a boyfriend for that matter. But, someone asked me the other day if I had a boyfriend and I was stumped, I hesitated, I didn't know how to answer it. (and because I didn't answer right away, the other person said "Oh, so you do have a boyfriend!") Is he considered a boyfriend?!?
2006-11-30 03:51:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you were stumped because you don't want to call him a "boyfriend," but you also consider yourself partially "taken" or occupied. How about just saying you are "talking to someone?"
2006-11-30 03:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will advise talking to the guy your e-mailing about it. The most important part of a relationship is communication and you should start with that. No matter what kind of advise you're getting from this site, only you and him can come up with the correct answer.
Good Luck
2006-11-30 04:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes only considered a boyfriend if you guys have aggreed that you are dateing. if you havent agreed he is just a friend that is a man. alot of people asume that kissing and sleeping together automaticly state you are a boyfriend and girlfriend but you have to ask one another and if you both say yes then you are boyfriend and girlfriends.
so no hes not your boyfriend
2006-11-30 03:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say boyfriend.. I would say, when asked if you have a bf, that you are "getting to know someone" ... I tmight be a good idea to say if you'd like to have it become a relationship..
2006-11-30 03:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on if he is willing to be your boyfriend you just can't say that he is your boyfriend and have him not know that he is your boyfriend. You and him should really talk about it.
2006-11-30 03:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he isn't......a boyfriend is someone that you have met before!! A guy that you email is just a penpal!!!
2006-11-30 03:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he asked you out..? or you guys are just emailing each other as friends..? I would say you guys are just getting to know each other.. :0
2006-11-30 03:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, only you kno that answer. How serious are u with that guy you are emailing with?
2006-11-30 03:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say no! u dont know whats out there!!! for all u know, that person could be a 50 year-old man!!!
2006-11-30 03:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by hunterjumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you have said to each other, if you have not talked about liking each other that way, then you are still friends.
2006-11-30 03:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by sweetsmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋