So me and this girl broke up two weeks ago cuz i accused her of cheating on me and it got us thinking about how we both have trust problems with each other... I talk to her every day and we both tell each other that we love the other and when i see her at work we still hug and kiss each other she stopped over at my house on monday and we where intimate with each other and that night she told me that she loved me so much and that she misses me.... See i love this girl more than anything ive been on more than a hand full of realtionships and ive never felt the way i feel about her and ive told her this many times and she has days where she loves me more than anything and other days where she doesnt know how to feel she tells me that it will come back around and it helps me to believe it when she tells me she loves me and that she still calls me every day and we still kiss each other but im so lost looking for a little advice
2006-11-30 03:46:23 · 11 answers · asked by Lab Runner 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a girl is telling you she loves you one day and is unsure the next, find someone else. I had a girl do that to me. the worst thing i did was stick around and see if she ever made up her mind. it just the me on an emotional rollercoaster. do you really think she cares for you if shes going to keep you in a relationship where she's unsure of her feelings. its a selfish act if she does so.
2006-11-30 03:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have trust issues. We've been together for over 7 months and we're still working on them. It's something that develops over time. As long as neither of you have done anything to make the other one think that you are cheating, then you guys are good. We've talked about this so much and we both just know that over time, we'll develop that trust. It takes time. Tell her that. Stop accusing her. That will push her away.
2006-11-30 11:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a case of nerves. It looks like you are both in love for the very first time and not sure how to feel. So, you accuse her of cheating, because you are possessive and she is not sure how to feel so she is fluctuating, too.
2006-11-30 11:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Nightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Make sure she gates the message that you're sorry for whatever you did, and you're willing to make up for it in any way.
Take it slowly, expect some rejects and a bit of 'hurts' but if you really love her, and you show it to her, you will get her back.
Don't worry. If she also loves you, she won't fall for another guy. Your still number 1 to her.
2006-11-30 11:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by zack_falcon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get together or brake up for real where u don't see each other at all. Or the girl just wants to pass time with u.
2006-11-30 11:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your trust issues will cause this relationship to fail if you don't figure them out. A relationship can't be successful until the relationship isn't your meaning for living and being.
2006-11-30 11:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both love each other then sit down and talk with her about your trusting problems and then see were it goes from there
2006-11-30 11:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by leelandrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it and be honest. You got to give her time... Just be patient and she'll come around...
Good luck...
2006-11-30 11:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and ask her back out.but take it slow this time. you both could work on your problems together. and hopefully it will work out this time.
2006-11-30 11:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like to like you and her should be going out!
2006-11-30 11:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Bex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋