my bf wont have sex with me with out a condom and he is so affraid. to ### in side me. he is twenty four i have a kid and so dose he. but sometimes i just want to have sex with him with out one. but we havent had sex in almost a week because he dosent have any more condoms.and he puts it off going to buy them.he is 24 and i am 21 and i just dont understand him
2006-11-30 03:45:23 · 20 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple..he doesn't want another kid..
2006-11-30 03:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't understand his need for safe sex? You don't understand his need to prevent another pregnancy?
Here's the break down: You are a risk taker. He is not. You want to risk giving or passing along STDs. You want to risk pregnancy. He does not want to get AIDS or another disease. He does not want another pregnancy.
Is this a deal breaker for you? Would you rather be with a guy who's passing along an STD or not caring if you get pregnant? If so, dump this decent guy -- after all there are plenty of users out there willing to screw you without any protection at all, then hightail it out of town when you get pregnant or end with a disease.
2006-11-30 03:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not want to have another child considering that you are both young and already have one each. Are you on the pill? If not, I can't blame him. He may also be concerned about STD's. Depending on how long you two have known each other, it's possible that he may be carrying one but is afraid to tell you or he may think there is a possibility that you may have one. I suggest asking him about it. It may not feel as good but it never hurts to use a condom! I suggest going to the store and purchasing them yourself. Then GET IT ON!!
2006-11-30 03:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by hooper5446 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww sweetie. in the beginning, consistently take a attempt while you're uncertain. this is the rule of thumb - in spite of in case you think of you're pregnant because of the fact of sitting on a rest room seat, nonetheless take a attempt. specially, to place your suggestions at relax. If he used a condom and it did no longer ruin (and additionally you're specific of this) then there is little hazard you're pregnant. the reason you may desire to be feeling such as you're is A) Your era coming and B) you're demanding approximately being pregnant. lots of people who do no longer want a baby, possibly because of the fact of being youthful, will complication themselves stupid after having intercourse, no count what safety replace into used. they'll complication lots that their bodies could have the comparable variety of indicators. you will fool your self into thinking you're pregnant. stay calm, shop what I mentioned in suggestions, take a attempt just to confirm and additionally you would be superb. Love x
2016-12-29 17:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not want to have unprotected till he reassures himself that u r his exclusive partner and that u accept him in the same way. It is a good practice to protect till both the partners stop having multiple partners. In so far as u r concerned, it hardly affects ur pleasures when he wears a condom.
2006-11-30 03:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very weird to me..
If you are on birth control, neither of you have an STD, and you
are both exclusive & faithful then I don't understand why he would
want to wear a condom nor why he would not want to come inside
of you...Something is going on that he is hiding from you....
2006-11-30 03:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's kind of right i mean you need a condom just buy some yourself and deal with it. Its not that big of an issue.
2006-11-30 03:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Only1 Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with safe sex, and I understand it doesn't feel as good with a cover, but he just wants to be safe.
2006-11-30 03:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use them. if you want sex so bad but he wont go buy condoms, you buy them!!! maybe having 2 small kids around is enough and he's not ready for another one...
2006-11-30 03:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is simple he doesn't want another kid right now try getting on the pill and then you don't have to worry about the condum breaking and you don't have to worry about running out of them either
2006-11-30 03:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by erk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my hat is off to your boyfriend --- he is being careful for both of you --- pregnancy and disease are being protected against
but because he has not bought any suggests he no longer wishes to have sex with you ---- maybe your insistence on unprotected sex is driving him away??
2006-11-30 04:01:59 · answer #11 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋