ok i think my boyfriend is cheating on me even though he tells me hes not.
reason-ok is lab partner got sick and then he got sick and now i'm sick what would u do if this happened to u?
2006-11-30 03:42:12 · 30 answers · asked by chey chey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would not worry --- colds and flu are VERY easy to catch -- all you need is someone to breathe on you the wrong way
anyway trust is essential in a relationship so trust him
2006-11-30 03:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is enough of a reason to think he is cheating on you. They are lab partners he could of got sick just because they are around each other. Now if you have something else to go on better then that I might say differntly.I know how to tell my b/f does this to me.
2006-11-30 03:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by love_me_not1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first things first... if they're lab partners, they probably are required to both handle the same lab items. Germs can easily be passed on this way if neither washes their hands frequently. Some germs are passed on just by breathing the same air.. ie. you could be in close proximity to a person, if they breathe on you, you can get sick. You should also remember, that many times, a person has sickness germs before they know they are sick. It's possible to pass something on, without realizing you are carrying a germ.
I would say, unless you caught them making out... he probably just grabbed the wrong beaker.
2006-11-30 03:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better have a better reason than that before accusing him of cheating on you. If you come into contact with a virus -- and it could be from someone sitting near you in a movie theater or at a store or wherever -- you are going to get sick. If he works with a lab partner who has a virus, he is going to catch it by just standing next to her. She coughs, he breathes in the germ. You are too suspicious.
2006-11-30 03:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him simply if he is cheating.
If his lab partner got sick and he caught it, then it is quite possible that he simply got sick. You are paranoid and gonna run your boyfriend off with all your suspicions and distrusting.
You need to calm down woman, people get sick all the time, and yes. Sickness is contagious, you dont need to share a meal, kiss or have intercourse with some one inf order to contract an illness from them.
STD's ofcourse are a different story...
2006-11-30 03:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by chibminshiy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sick with what?
You should never assume. Can you trust him to tell you the truth? Is there a another reason for you to think he's having an affair? Talk to him again and let him now that you are still having doubts, but remember if he's telling you the truth it may frustrate him that you do not trust and believe him!!!
Good Luck...
2006-11-30 03:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by maze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sick with a cold, then it's probably not cheating. Colds spread too easy to be anything but social contact. If you're sick with an STD, he definitely cheating.
2006-11-30 03:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private investigator or just have someone follow him around all day. tell them to keep their distance though, we wouldn't want any confrontations now, would we? also, GERMS SPREAD. just because u all got sick doesnt mean he is cheating on u. sounds like ur too worried about something that may not exist. relax not all men are dogs. if u love(like) him then u should trust him.
2006-11-30 03:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by tank6904 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you asked him and he said no and you really dont have any other reason than wow three people got sick at the same time then you are kind of insecure about yourself he's probably not cheating. if you dont think you can trust him leave otherwise get off his *** about it unless you have proof
2006-11-30 03:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catching a cold is as easy as touching the same thing. Germs sit everywhere. If that is the evidence that you have that he is cheating, then I wouldnt worry about it. Now, if she had herpes, and then HE got herpes, and now YOU have herpes.. that is a different story, but if your mom had a cold, and then he got it would you think the same thing?.....oh and I wouldnt hound him about "cheating"... Men get tired of that QUICK.. especially when they arent cheating... Good Luck
2006-11-30 03:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by WestWife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it does sound possible...ya know germs flying around....but if u have any other wierd things that have happened...ok also do u have a upsetting feeling in ur stomach? well i would call cheaters( u know that tv show) let them follow him around...if he is cheating you'll be able to find and the truth AND humiliate him on national tv...thats the best satisfaction!!! good luck
2006-11-30 03:49:00 · answer #11 · answered by truthgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋