I've been dating this guy for a while and after a few months of dating i spent the night with him well he had bought me my own soap and a little loufa thing i was kind of confused at first and i still am... we had a serious conversation about when we spend the weekends together and he said he hates it during the week cause he comes home to an empty house and than said "maybe i should do something about it?" is he hinting at something or am i just overthinking things?
2006-11-30 03:35:29 · 29 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he wants you to spend more time with him. It was very sweet of him to buy you some of your own things to keep at his place. Take things in your own time and dont feel pressured to move in with him or spend more time there if you are not ready for it.
2006-11-30 03:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is hinting that he wants to be more serious and take the next step. I'm guessing that he is unsure about exactly how to ask you straight-forward. Many guys tend to have communication issues when it comes to relationships.
If you aren't sure whether he is trying to ask you to move in, you can always ask him directly about what he said. Confronting him with it and asking him to clarify will force him to actually ask. Although it may scare him a bit at the same time if he has doubts about commitment himself.
What you should be asking yourself is if you, and the relationship itself, are ready to take that step. With every step comes risks, but with every risk comes a chance for happiness. Which fork in the road you take is up to you.
2006-11-30 11:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone bought me soap I would maybe consider my personal hygiene. Not being cheeky, but if thats all he bought you then he might be trying to tell you something! Either that or he wants you to move in. Just ask him, not the world.
2006-11-30 11:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why he gave you the soap and loofah sponge, is he trying to say you need to bathe, because you stink? And don't jump to any conclusions, you barely know this man, why would you move in with a man who is almost a stranger? Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-30 11:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is silently asking you to move in. Be caustious. Start bringing little things over and leave them there. Like a blow dryer, feminie products, changes of clothes. See what happens.
2006-11-30 11:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by drockfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take it slow and not to move in with him, because things will change and bad then will happen. I would be scared if i was in your shoe.
Guy advice i would ask him about it and talk about it first and then you make an decision.
Be careful.
2006-11-30 11:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Simon G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're overthinking. I can tell just by the words you're typing. Trust me it's not what you think....but he might want you to spend the night more often.
2006-11-30 11:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be making plans to ask you to marry him or to move in with him. If you have a toothbrush there, that's a good sign, too.
2006-11-30 11:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Vosot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be hinting at something, though he himself might not have thought that statement though himself, and just enjoying ur company at the weekend made him say it so if ur where interested u could go and see him on weekdays
2006-11-30 11:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope it seems like a hint but thats what i would say to a girl to move in with me
2006-11-30 11:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by yankee14206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋