she still is pursuing the fact that she would like to know if there would ever be a chance in the future once i realized that i'd like to give us another shot.... i told her i dont know.... and that i didn't want to see other people .. but i dont want her to look like a fool thinking that she's waitin for me and i'm not even workin towards that
2006-11-30 03:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by Adam C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stage 5 Clinger.lol. i guess Ive been watching wedding crashers to many times.
You should just tell her that its not that she doesnt have a chance with you its that you think shes gorgeous but your not attracted to her in that way.Tell her you think of her as a friend even as a sister.
2006-11-30 03:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by natchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to wait for you, and that you don't want her to. You've told her you're not into the relationship, and wasn't looking for one currently, doesn't mean that in the near future you will be looking to get back together with her. Tell her you think she's cool, but she should be seeing other guys so that she's not wasting her time waiting for you. She may say something like, "I'll wait for you forever! I don't see it as wasting time!" WELL, once she gets back 'in the field' or takes some time, she'll realize how silly she was. So try to cut her loose, tell her to date other people because she 'deserves to be happy'.
2006-11-30 03:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say "i don't know" and "I don't want to see other people" you are implying that you do want something. you have to straight up say see ya till you make up your mind. Don't mess with her. have some respect and break it off completely, that means sex especially. You know the phrase "you don't know what you got till its gone"? you'll never know til you push her away. you both are wasting time and energy. Not to mention all the stress a bad relationship brings.
2006-11-30 03:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Becky E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell to stop waiting and go and find another boyfriend. Say it in a nice caring way and just tell her you aren't ready to put your foot in the water just yet.
2006-11-30 03:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with her anymore be completely honest and quit wasting her time. Tell her it's over that she's not the one.
2006-11-30 03:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead her on. You need to tell her the truth so she can move on with her life. It's hard to do and she will hurt, but it's for the best.
2006-11-30 03:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her.
2006-11-30 03:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh! girls want what they cant have
2006-11-30 03:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋