Ive got a famous girlpal (pretty, sexy, celebrity) and a hottie crush from school. I told the guy that someone's got a crush on him. I did this to give him a hint of the way i feel for him. When he guessed who it was, he pointed out my girlpal. I got hurt but didnt tell him he guessed it wrong, instead i told him that he's correct. I dont know what came up to me but i hooked them up with each other. Now, theyre flirting with each other...always talkin on the phone, texting, talking about sleazy stuff. I am hurt. My friend knows i really like the guy, but why is she still flirting or entertaining the guy. She told me, she'll f*#k him if given the chance. Last week she told me, they almost met up to have s*x. I told her, once this happens, just keep it to herself. She said sorry but she still keeps on flirting with him. What should i do? with the guy? with my friend? I am so hurt.
2006-11-30 03:32:17 · 19 answers · asked by islandgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you brought this upon yourself...Lick your wounds and carry on....Yuke
2006-11-30 03:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by yukoneze 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Awww, I am so sorry to hear that.
First things first: You should have taken the guy while you had the chance
You know, there really is only one decent thing to do: Move on.
Who knows? Maybe you'll find a better one, somewhere. There are plenty of fish in the ocean.
Now about your friend, I'm afraid it's kinda difficult, but you have to tell her how you feel.
"Friends will always be there for you", and if she isn't, then she's not a true friend. Just a 'companion'. Make her understand that you made a mistake, and you are trying to make up for it.
You can also tell your friend to tell the guy about you. You did her a favor by telling the guy about her. Time to pay the debt, I suppose.
This may not be much of an advice, but this happened to a friend of mine, and all I can do was be there for him. It worked in the end. He got over it.
Good luck....
2006-11-30 11:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by zack_falcon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly, you did this to yourself. You had your chance to tell him how you felt but you chickened out. I'm sure when you hooked your two friends up that your female friend naturally assumed that you were no longer interested in this guy. If you cant handle seeing them flirt then i suggest that you try finding another group of friends to spend time with until this passes. You never know, if shes "famous" then she'll most likely have a new bed buddy within a month or so. After that, the question is, do you like sloppy seconds?
2006-11-30 11:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bah!
Celebrities ...
She doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. If she knows you like this guy, but continues to flaunt their "relationship" in your face (because that's exactly what she's doing), she really doesn't give a crap about how you feel. And after an appology, she continues right on down the path that she was, that really wasn't an appology.
I think you should explain yourself to this guy. If he knows that it was YOU that has a crush on him and not "little miss famous", maybe he'd go for you over her.
I'd dump the friend, honestly. And if he doesn't realise what he's missing out on by passing you up, I'd dump him, too.
2006-11-30 11:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young child, marvel at these immortal words: but take heed to them quickly because time is of the essence. Isolate your beautiful soul from those nasty animals for just thirty minutes and imagine yourself talking to a "goddess" like me (for example)
In time you, and your soul will find the perfect angel. However, until then, at you have to do is look at the moons' reflection on a crystal clear night, then watch all stars look down upon you and dance a grand entrance into you and your world, it's fun and so easy to do, only if you follow my instructions. Remember this: Always and from now on learn to seek and find who your creator really is then your awaited kingdom will fulfill your greatest wish.
2006-11-30 11:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by romaniascott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's shallow and she's not a friend, go let her be a bad friend to someone else and don't waste your time. But to prevent rumors and reprisal, avoid any big drama and confrontation when making the split. I have a friend who is friends with a girl just like that, but she's an adult- just proof that it never stops. Find a friend that you enjoy hanging out with that respects things like that...
2006-11-30 11:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly your friend sounds like a *****, and you need a better friend. If you told your crush outright you would be dating him, but since you didnt you are either going to have to wait for them to break up or move on and find someone else. Who is your friend by the way im just curious? I wont tell anyone else, im good with secrets. just e-mail it.
2006-11-30 11:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put them together so you have to live with what has happend but you might have been mis match maker you never know where thoes two will go but just as a little hint tell this guy how you feel and tell him what really happend
2006-11-30 11:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing I've learned is fight for your right. Keep fighting for the man you like. And sleazy girls never get good relationships so if they do hook up, expect a break up real soon so keep your eyes open. If it still isn't good enough.... this is cliche'd, but there's someone better.
2006-11-30 11:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sorry 2 tell ut but ur firned isnt a real friend..and i'll tell u something just leave them together and find urself someone else..really..u made a mistake from the beginning 2 hook them up sorry..
2006-11-30 11:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lesson learned. It's your own fault for hooking them up in the first place.
2006-11-30 11:37:35 · answer #11 · answered by AMC615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋