allowed to have a gf so the we began kinda going out but then then my father found out when he saw us making out in my room, so when i went home he confronted me and i told him yes i do have a gf and then he hit me with a metal pipe and he told me that how can i do such a thing when i am a muslim and is discrased at having a son like me(since haveing a gf is aginst our religon) so what am i supposed to do should i leave islam in order to be with my gf???the girl who i dearly love or should i commit suicide???- anyone wishing to contact me here is my msn- wwe_ramin612@hotmail.com
2006-11-30 03:28:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you may love her, but if you love her more than Allah, then no offense, but your father is right to be upset. and it is not against Islam to be in love. do not commit suicide. do not leave your religion. wait and pray. Allah is just.
2006-11-30 04:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Neha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already stated several time that you have left Islam, so why do you keep referring to it as "my religion" if it no longer is your religion. You already posted a question stating " you recently abandoned Islam" and that Islam was full of idiots. Is that what you think your parents are "idiots"? If nothing else you are being deeply disrespectful to them. If you want to drink alcohol, have girlfriends and be like the other kids at school, do it and stop whining about it. You need Islam, Islam does not need you. It has to be a submission of the heart which you obviously don't have. Stop repeating yourself and get on with it then.
2006-11-30 04:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a muslim, you should not commit suicide either! last thing to do dude, you will be the only one to lose a (good) life ahead. you have a roof on your head, food, parents who seem caring, why on earth do yu want to commit suicide? for a girl who could probably dump you or whom you can stop loving one day?? listen, if you get beaten by your parents (they should not use violence!), why don't you see this girl in different places than in your home? also you can go out wihtout having sex involved, and still have a deep relationship. think twice, your parents may only want your good, they do not know how to express it, try discussing with them, and if they are so opposed, find other options than suicide or leaving islam, you won't be any happier!good luck
2006-11-30 03:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 17:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asalamualekum brother I am a fifteen year old muslim who is in the same boat as you are. First off if she is not willing to adhear to the teachings of islam than along the road it will be a disaster. Believe you me my dad whom is a very pious muslim lets me have gf as long as there is no sexual relations. you must restrain yourself from the evil you battle with. I am not sure if having a gf is makrew or harram but I know that in my heart I have no intention of doing wrong because I have strong Iman. Just remember the faith and its teachings the next time you see her and recite you astakhfar. subhanallah if you have anymore questions just e-mail me at hotboi3654@yahoo.com
2006-11-30 03:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
changing religion can be an option "IF" she's really that worth it, because changing your religion may hurt your dad and family a lot, because it is somewhat choosing her over your family.... so think things over and over again before making a move to avoid making mistakes and hurting your family.
Committing a suicide is a super no no, suicide will never solve your problem it'll just add more problem, besides you won't just be hurting you and your family, you'll also hurt the girl that you love.
there is no proper advice and solution to give, but only options to make and choose, in the end it's still all up to you. Weigh things first before choosing your options.
2006-11-30 03:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my GOD ! wht are u going to do? you are a Muslim but u don't know abt Islam?listen carefully!u don't need to change ur religion bcoz to love someone is not against Islam.I'm sorry to say that u r making mistakes to understand Islam.it is allowed in Islam that a guy n girl can see n meet with each other for the purpose of marriage.if u love this girl then u can marry with her . if u are above 18 then u don't need to take permission from ur father,if u are under18 then u both can wait for marriage.to love some1 is not a sin in Islam.it is quiet natural.so plzzzzz understand Islam n get knowledge abt ur rights in Islam.I'm a muslim n i better know abt it .u may contact me i will help u.
2006-11-30 03:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by good luck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not commit suicide. If you choose to leave your religion then go ahead, but don't do something stupid. It will hurt you and your family and friends. Maybe go to a counselor and talk to them about it. Don't let your religion take control. Do what you have to in your heart.
2006-11-30 03:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would run away, especially if you live in the United States. Child abuse is illegal here, and almost anywhere I think, and even if you're over 18 it's still assault.
You are allowed to choose who you want to be with, and if you love her then you shouldn't let anything like religion or parents get in the way.
2006-11-30 03:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Terry W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave the religion... Obviouisly a religion that does not inspire love is not worth the time... How are you ever supposed to meet someone have a relationship...? No woman is going to marry you just like that...
I say leave the religion and be happy...
Good luck!!!!
2006-11-30 03:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋