Do men really want sex more than women?

Question

I havent had sex yet with my girl, she wanted to wait a while b4 we did. I respect her decision and i wont pressure her but im like a dog in heat at this stage. But how is she not? How is it she can wait no bother but im ready to go at any time? Does it mean she doesnt want me? Or is it that women can control themselves better when it comes to sex? Thanks

Answer 1

I love this question its funny! Woman tend to stablish a emotional relationship first rather than the physical. So she is trying to establish that she can A-Trust You B-That once you get it you won't leave C- That you truly care for her. Men are naturally Horn Dogs:-), nothing wrong with it but i can understand where your coming from. Just like your doing continue to respect her and eventually she will feel comfortable enough with you to share that with you. In the meantime well you have a hand ;-) Good Luck and i give you props for just not ditching her when she said she wanted to wait it shows your a real man!

Answer 2

Studies show this to be true men think 3 or 4 times more about sex than woman do in a day! Can you believe yourself...LOL anyway...woman can control themselves and can go on in a state of celibacy for a long time, and not to mention that they may use masturbation or toys as a substitute. She may have good reasons, let her be sure about all this and give her the time she needs and in the mean time you do not have to do the actual act...there are a number of ways she can satisfy you without giving in to intercourse...i am sure you can come up with a few ideas

Answer 3

The biggest mistake men make sexually is to assume that women's sexuality is the same as theirs. Porn may tell you that women are easily aroused and satisfied by a large penis inside their bodies, but that is simply not the truth for most women. The most important truth is this:
Men and women's sexual response patterns are different.

The fact that hers is different from yours does not mean that she doesn't want you, but that she is at a different point in her arousal cycle than you are.*

Men are more easily aroused and satisfied than women.That's a fact. Period. For you, just seeing her might be enough to arouse her. For her, it generally requires more than the sight of you to feel arousal and it requires a lot more work and time for a woman to get satisfied. So at this point, you're chomping at the bit and she's not even ready for the bit yet. And in many women, arousal is not even obvious to them unless they are really in touch with their bodies (after all, it's not like women have an external thermometer telling them how hot they are feeling, is it?).

To be sure, some women do have a more 'male' response pattern. (Sometimes this is due to a greater level of positive sexual experience with skilled partners who actually satisfied them and/or have higher levels of testoserone in their bodies than other women.)

*Don't take this the wrong way, but it could also mean that you need to work on your skills. If you are taking care and effort to arouse her with the kind of stimulation she truly needs/wants (or help her to find that out), then her arousal response rate should increase.

Answer 4

Its not that women don't want hot sex like men. Its just that women are programmed to think with their emotions. She wants the timing to be special so she's telling you to wait. Since she told you she wants to wait a while before FINALLY doing it, if you really love her, you should wait. But if its a wham bam, no strings attached sex you badly need, patronise the sex hawkers afterall, men do that. But if its love, wait and then have the mind blowing sex she needs/deserves.

Answer 5

Yes men do want sex more than women. I just learned this recently in my psychology class. Also men enjoy sex more, they like different sexual activities more than women also. She probably loves you, but you will just have to give her time.

Answer 6

you guys (especially her) may be too young. respect her wishes and find another way to get yourself off (masturbation or if you cant control yourself you may need to find a different girlfriend).
if you are old enough - she may be a nice girl who wants to cherish sex more than you do and you may still need to find another girl.
Once women start to have sex - they end up wanting it as much as men and sometimes more. so leave this innocent girl alone or try to explore other things in the relationship. if you guys like each other a lot - maybe you can find other ways to get off with each other other than intercourse.

Answer 7

its not that she doesnt want you i think it means more that she wants to wait obiviously she thinks your special and wants the sex to be too.I idont think men have a higher sex drive than women i just think women have more self control dont worry once shes ready yous will be at it all the time she.ll want to make up for lost time

Answer 8

I think it depends on the person and the circumstance. I think I tend to want sex less than my girlfriend, but that's probably more complex than her just being hornier.

I think in our society women are taught not to be sexual creatures, while at the same time on TV and everywhere else there are sexual images and guys are taught to take the initiative and to chase after sex and to dominate to prove our worth.

Answer 9

No my man they can just hid it better she wants it but shes doing this cuz she wants to see how far she can push the limit shes learning her man and whats she can take away and how long she can befor you lose it and she doesnt want to sleep with some one just looking to get layed she's looking for something kinda real

Answer 10

Men want sex more when they are younger, women usually want it more when they hit there 30's.