we get along ive known him for 3 years cuz we're both playful but wen i met him he was really quiet and mysteriuos almost, i made it my mission almost, to get to know him and bring him outta his shell, and i did (took a while but we're like best friends) hes pretty comfortable with me but e is still not the most touchy feely guy in the world at all, but i wanted to try give him a friendly peck on the cheak but i dnt want him to get freked out, hes kinda uptight bout that stuff, any advice bout wat to say beforeand if its a gud idea (plz dnt be too harsh with me)
2006-11-30 03:24:30 · 26 answers · asked by karin v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I take it you're interested in being more than playful friends with him...? If so, I think you shouldn't wait another minute and go for the kiss. If he doesn't respond in the way you'd like... wait until the next day and ask something like, "Did I make you uncomfortable yesterday when I kissed you?" His answer will either tell you that he's not interested in you like that, or that he is but is just nervous, or it might lead to making out. All of those outcomes are great because at least you'd know what's up and you won't have to wait around anymore.
2006-11-30 03:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i choose my first kiss too yet i'm suggesting to you what a lot of people have instructed me: await the suited guy to return alongside. once you have a boyfriend, plan time at the same time, get to nicely known eachother genuine nicely. Get as close as you're along with your ultimate chum. As time comes and is going, and before than you comprehend it you've got your first kiss. As for suited now, wait till destiny brings you on your experience.
2016-12-14 09:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should ask him if hes o.k with you kissing him.
I did this once..and im sure he answered yes because he didn't want to hurt my feeling but All of a suddon he got into it and now he really really likes me. So it would probably be the same for you because the guy you described is just like my guy.
2006-11-30 03:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by natchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is uptight around you that way it may be because he is not into that for a lot of different reasons.
I firmly believe if it is meant to be or he would like you in that way - he would not be acting like your brother - he would act like your lover. you seem to be giving all the right signals and if he has not made his move by now - he may not.
potential reason:
1. you guys are way too young (does not sound like that)
2. he is gay
3. he is related to you
4. he wants you as a friend
5. he is not attracted to you
6. he is not ready for a relationship
2006-11-30 03:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything.
Next time you hug to say goodbye, brush a kiss on his cheek. See how he reacts.
If badly, apologize and tell him you've been wanting to do that for a long time and you're sorry if he's offended.
If he's shocked in a good way, tell him you've been wanting to do that for a long time, and ask if you can do it again!!
2006-11-30 03:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general it doesn't matter what you do as long as you choose something and just go with it. It's not good to be wish-e-washy if you have a choice to make, make it with all your heart soul and mind.
Be sure to think about what you actually feel, would it be worse to ignore wanting to kiss him or would it be worse to kiss him and for him to feel uncomfortable?
2006-11-30 03:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Dustin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my opinion is start flirting a little... playful though and see if he does it too. Before you leave school or work give him a hug and say bye... If he hugs you can be like that back than go for it ... if he doesn't i suggest you don't.... hope it helps:)
2006-11-30 03:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask for a kiss take it and its only a friendly kiss anyway but you should do it but ummm if he does get freaked out just be like it was just a friend thing nothing personal
2006-11-30 03:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him a peck and if he looks funny afterwards just tell him that it was a love kiss he should understand!!!
2006-11-30 03:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by two boyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but he might be gay the way he sounds unless your his first. dont say anything just wait for the right moment and do it. or you could just say "i wanna kiss you". Guys like it when girls are straight forward, none of this beating around the bush headgame b.s.
2006-11-30 03:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋