My boyfriend and I have an understanding. He knows I communicate with other men and that I call myself single while out alone. I only call him "boyfriend" for lack of a better word. He is very good to me but I can't see us being together forever. This other guy is young and dumb and tells me things he should not like "I can't believe you don't miss me" or "I've been thinking about you a lot" but he is sexy and I think we have more in common than the 42 year old and I. I know "42" would be heart broken if he found out about "22" but "22" would probably flip out, too. I told "22" I was single and had noone else in my life.
2006-11-30 03:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are a girl - they always go for the money and do the other guy on the side - ah duh
2006-11-30 03:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you call yourself single while out and alone, that says a lot about the 'relationship' you have with 42. Financially supportive is a 'nice' way of puting it. Beyond other problems here, there is a common denominator - Lying. First and foremost, with yourself. Be true to yourself and figure out what you want! Then take the next step and be true to others. The truth always works :) There is a good reason both of these men would have problems with your actions, and I think deep down you know why. Do the right thing.
2006-11-30 03:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by the_one_percent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously with 42 just for security, and if you know its not a permanent thing, what are you doing?????? Going out and saying your single when your not, is the worst thing you could do. You need to tell 42 thanks for the experience but its not what your looking for. And if 22 treats you the way you like, then maybe you should be with him and stop using 42 for his money. However at this point you've been lieing to 22, he doesnt deserve you. Seems like you just enjoy playing games with guys. Not cool, its gonna come back and haunt you. Good luck with that.
2006-11-30 03:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by ELW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back and analyze your situation and then come back for the question if you haven't already answered it yourself. You are a gamer and only looking out for yourself. Grow up and stop the deceptions you create. Grow up or else it will happen to you in the future and when you are 42 or older and not so cute. Do you have a conscience?
ps - what comes around goes around always and forever
2006-11-30 03:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop using the 42 year old as that is what it sounds like. Be honest as you would not want any of this done to you!
2006-11-30 03:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 42 yr old is not your type but you take his MONEY. The 22 yr old is your type yet you lie to him . So i guess that makes you a LYING W**re
2006-11-30 03:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and stop playing games the world doesn't revolve around you your messing with people who have feelings yes the may just be two guys that your playing but there people to figure out what the hell you want before you mess up two good people
2006-11-30 03:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋