At what point in a relationship do you call it quits. Where is your limit of bull **** you put up with. How do you really recognize it is over.
2006-11-30 03:05:12 · 13 answers · asked by # 1 sweet pea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just like the song..." The thrill is gone"...Sounds like it's over now...Get out before you get deeper in the mire and still have some pride left...Now...Yuke
2006-11-30 03:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by yukoneze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You set your own limits. Only you can decide that you are done taking all the bull from your partner. Sometimes you start making excusses for all the things they do, but in the end if they are putting you through all that bull they are not worth your time. And when you give them chance after chance, its like telling them that no matter what they pull you will always give them that second chance. So ask your self if your ready to put an end to all the bull. Did you try to fix all the problems? Just know that it takes two people to fix a relationship, so even if you keep trying if your partner doesnt want to change, then you have to move on. Good luck, because like I said, only you can make that decision, no matter what any one tells you.
2006-11-30 03:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated this man for 6 months that was crazy. He took me on lots of trips we had so much in common but he would dump me almost every 2 weeks so he could get high with friends and go to clubs and hit on other women. Then he would come back saying he loved me and has never cheated on me and wants things to be better. He would always continue to do the same things. Finally I got sick of all his sh**and ended it for good. He came back telling me he loved me and this was hard but by this time I was falling out of love with him. I learned a lesson though to not let someone waste my time like this again. I think there is a point when someone is doing bad things to you that you have to cut your losses no matter what. If someone loves you they are supposed to make you happy not miserable.
2006-11-30 03:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I feel unsure of myself and upset in a relationship then I know it's better off over. I have no set limit of what to put up with.
2006-11-30 03:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every person has a different level of bs they will put up with. You have to decide for yourself how much bs you can put up with that is not really a question others can answer for you. If all you do is fight its over just tell him Im done with ur bs and walk away.An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind."
-Buddha
I insert man for friend . For some reason I love this quote
2006-11-30 03:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by samcamcam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is constant drama get out. It is over when the bad out weighs the good. Find someone that makes you laugh is compassionate caring loving giving;a good listener as well someone your willing to do the same for.
2006-11-30 03:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When their is no connection between each other and it feels like there is no love left. That's when you call it quits. If cheating happens once it if forgivable but if it happens twice... Then I think that you can figure it out.
2006-11-30 03:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by Music=Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never change in anything until the pain of the change is less than the pain of staying the same. If it is more painful to stay in the relationship than it would be if you left it is time to go.
2006-11-30 03:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by suzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know when its really over when you don't feel the same way you did when you started going out with him... where i draw the limit is if the guy is cheating on you... thats when i say it's over
2006-11-30 03:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know when "you" have had ENOUGH..but also like some one else said..it is true if you are asking this than you've probably had enough
2006-11-30 03:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by ccrazeegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋