Although I wasn't one to meet women as much as I would have liked, I've had a couple of one nighters and enjoyed myself. Stupidly I wasn't always careful. I don't have any regrets other than not protecting myself when I should have. I'm curious to see the answers given by men compared to women.
2006-11-30 03:01:59 · 31 answers · asked by david041164 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a women. I've kind of had a one night stand, in the sense that we only had sex once, but not in the sense where I met someone had sex with them that night and it was done.
Wouldn't consider it to be all that great. I much rather have repeated sex with the same person, it feels better emotionally and physically (if your partner takes time to learn what you like and don't like)
2006-11-30 03:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone should say that one night stands are BAD. Why would you even ask a question like this one?
This generation is getting just as bad as the ancient inhabitants of Sodom and Gommorah and the cities all around. Those people were killed because of their perversions of every kind. Can you understand that our salvation as a world community depends on each and every one of us?
If God, who called for the destruction, sees that we have turned from all badness and love one another as brothers and sisters we could escape Armeggedon. There will be a great crowd which no man was able to number that do survive...Will you continue to do evil things or will you clean up your life and try to live forever?
It's up to you.
2006-11-30 11:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it depends on the person. If you think one night stands are fine, then I say go for it. I've actually never had one, but look at it as something I would probably do if I wasn't in a relationship. Sometimes, you just need a little "love" without the complication of a relationship. Just hopefully next time you protect yourself!
2006-11-30 11:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If ur not hooked up..y not. Its all good man. But use protection. A one night stand can turn into problems nobody needs. One nighters arnt wrong unless the chick doesnt want to. Then its wrong.
2006-11-30 14:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by cuzzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, im a guy, and any sex is good sex, but ive had a couple scares and had to cross my fingers after a couple one nighters. Usually alcohol is involved. Now that nothing bad has happened, i look back on some of those with pride, and some with horror. I wouldnt regale my current gf with stories about them, but with the guys some of them are good for a laugh.
2006-11-30 11:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't see anything wrong with one night stands, as long as the people who engage in them realize that's what they are (and I think if someone is going home with a stranger, then they probably realize it's not something that's going to last past that evening)
Of course, people are also good at deluding themselves.
2006-11-30 11:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Terry W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're both adults and neither one expects it to go any further, then there's nothing wrong with it.
Do make sure you use protection, though. How would you like it to get a phone call ten years later and the person on the phone says "Hi Dad!".
2006-11-30 11:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your single and need to get some,i totally understand, but i dont know i guess it has to do with morel's, like you said, you dont regret any of it, Niether do i with the one nighters ive had. but i know that a lot more women seem to get more skrewed up by it than men, because they have a lot more emotion i suppose.
2006-11-30 11:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well..one night stands are pretty stupid if not having protected.If if you do use a condom then all's well.
Besides One nighters are lots of fun!
2006-11-30 11:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by natchi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
was fun, but now at a point in my life no longer necessary for the future buddy, you definitely need to protect yourself or one day a one night stand may turn into the rest of your life!!!
2006-11-30 11:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋