I'm in love with my bestfriend. What should I do?

Question

We became friends during our college days. He's a very nice guy. He always waits for me to get a cab before crossing the street, He always asks me to sit with him during class, we always enrol together and when I start to walk away from him (since he's talking to his friends) a minute later, he'd be standing beside me. Sometimes when I caught his gaze, he just gives up a smile. Whenever I did something wrong, he's not blaming me for it. That's why I'm starting to fall for him. T_T

Answer 1

You should tell him how you feel.

Answer 2

let's see, he's either very courteous or smitten w/ you. is he seeing someone now? does he still treat you the same way as he did in college, or is he even around anymore? do you know how he feels about you? best thing to do in this situation is...sigh...nothing (directly). although, indirectly you can throw him a few subtle hints. flirt w/ him, see where that leads you. if he responds to flirtation, he most likely is interested. however, if he ever comes to you w/ questions about another woman or how to appeal to other women, then forget it. he doesn't like you in the romantic sense. try to be available for him, but never actually counsel him about relationships. steer the conversation toward his interests and likes and things you may have in common. find something you both like, and if he wants you badly enough, he'll ask you out to an event related to your mutual interests. also, don't talk to him about other men you might be interested in to spark his interest or make him jealous; it will backfire in the long run. ok so...best of luck! and remember, don't come out and ask him how he feels about you, and don't ask him out! let the man take the lead. and if nothing happens, then spend less time w/ him, and find yourself someone who does like you as much as you like him. that said, good luck! :-D

Answer 3

This is easy. You HAVE to let him know how you feel. Since it may be love you're almost abligated to. You won't get too many chances to say this. And the chances become less the longer you live. This life sucks in many ways, if you have the chance to tell someone you love them be brave, take it. Your karma account will sky rocket. And not to mention, he probobally feels just as attracted to you, but you know how guys are, especially nice guys, there usually shy.

Answer 4

You have two choices, just stay friends and eventually grow apart when you both marry someone else and drift away or tell him how you feel and see how it goes. You'll probably lose him sooner or later anyway so tell him how you feel and, even though it may end in flames, at least you took your shot.

Answer 5

Take it slow. You might want to talk to him about these feelings you are having for him. Some of the best relationships start out that way.

Answer 6

I'm in love with my bestfriend to. Tell him how you feel, cause ya'll could move on and settle for something else, WORST! I did, and we both need to correct these actions:) Hope I was some help?

Answer 7

hey dear,
falling in love is a cool feeling.As he is Ur best friend u better tell him n u know he dosent blame u for any thing and may be he tooo likes u???

Answer 8

Sounds like he would be the one all you have to do now is tell him how you feel. He sounds like he feels the same and you just haven`t heard it yet.Tell him how you feel!

Answer 9

you should first tell him (you knew some one was gonna say that) then tell him every thiung that you just wrote(like what you think of it) because you dont want him to get mixxed signals don let him talk un till your finished then let him spill his guts

Answer 10

It sounds like there's a good chance he may return your feelings. I think you should tell him. Good luck!

Answer 11

Hi...i think he kinda likes you too... :) so go for it... whats the most ur gonna lose... and if it doesnt work in a realtionship u still have ur friendship.... :)