How can I stop loving James Blunt I just love him soooo much.
I know you will all think I will need therapy or summit.......but I can't get him off my mind. Like I have a chance anyway. Any suggetstions??
2006-11-30 02:26:28 · 33 answers · asked by Twinkle *little fairy* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey its ok to love him...stop trying to deny yourself x
2006-11-30 02:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you've asked so directly, I 'have' to answer....How well do you know James Blunt to love him soooo much? Write down what you feel LOVE really means and then ask yourself if your relationship with the aforementioned Mr. Blunt bears any resemblance to anything on your list. Just to get the ball rolling, love doesn't mean liking his hair, smile, voice or songs. Love is soooo much deeper than that. Good luck...
2006-11-30 03:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why you love him. Love requires some sort of knowledge of the person. A am not sure if this is not an attraction (maybe) lust rather than love....
have said that I do beleive that you have a genuine problem....and my solution is to focus on reality rather than fantasy....
however you do know him and there is a realistic chance of a relationship....
Go For IT!
2006-11-30 02:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by insane2mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you think is love is more likely infatuation,try and find some think real to pass your lonely hours with,its all a dream that's stuck in your head,you may find that the real world is a lot healthier
2006-11-30 03:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by barnowl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry...but you love him, and love is a very powerful force. But if you want to forget about him, find someone you truly care for or even love more or as much as this James guy.
2006-11-30 02:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Drew S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to be in your same position. Just go out with new people, get to know boys that you dont usually talk to. sooner or later you'll find someone perfect who will make you forget about any other man on your mind.
cesar
2006-11-30 03:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by greatpharohcesar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont fret...I dont know who this JB guy is, but these famous types are usually shallow and jaded. get yourself an old fashond feller. nobody needs to know who you are but you.
besides I heard james blunt has a small penis!
2006-11-30 02:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by southswell2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh well you could of gone for someone alittle better looking...
Your not in love, i suggest you try and stay away from anything which involves him. put everything you own which could possible remind u of him out of sight!
Join a gym or something... meet some real men! someones out there for u
2006-11-30 02:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by geminially 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep loving him,there is no problem with that,as long as you don't expect any dreamy respond,i believe you can reach anything you want,but you have to pay the price!keep loving him,i promise you meet someone as good as him in your life..
2006-11-30 02:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um. Find things to do to take your mind off him.
Or just let nature take it's course. I was once obsessed with Ryan Ross,now not already. It goes away gradually with time.
2006-11-30 02:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by HahaYou'rePwned! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to find something you like doing to get him off your mind. It works in time
2006-11-30 02:28:51 · answer #11 · answered by Murphy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋