well i juz want to know how to u deal wit the lost of a loved........?

Question

i ask b/c i lost my dad two years aog and next week the day will b here again and it dont feel like its getting ne ez'er i still wish they was here was i could have done sumthing u know, cant go into to it ne deeper, feel myself cryin inside he was my best frend and each day i juz wish he was here ............ plz real answer only

Answer 1

I know what it is to lose a parent whom you love and who loved you. My father has been gone for 12 years and still I think of him. We were very close when he died. I took care of him in his last few years. He suffered from cancer and it was terrible and I hurt for him everyday. You never get over the loss of a loved one. You can only try to live with the loss and only time will heal the hurt and the loneliness death brings. The thing to always remember is the good times you enjoyed with your father whenever the hurt returns and you begin to really miss him. Also, if he was a Christian as my father was, know that he is with God and his suffereing is over. He is in the best place possible and I know I want to be there with my father and I am sure you want the same thing. Pray to God to heal you of your hurt and bring to your remembrance all the good times you and your father had whenever you begin to miss him and the hurt returns. Believe me....it will help more than you think.

Answer 2

Time heals all wounds. You just have to take it ONE DAY at at time. I lost my mom in 01 and every January 11th is VERY hard on me. Its been almost 6 years and it still feels like the first day most of the time. She was my closest friend and my angel on earth. I truly miss her more than I can comprehend sometimes. I have amazing friends who are there for me. I suggest confiding in someone close to you that you can talk to and get social support from. Good luck

Answer 3

Take it one day at a time. Grieving takes time. My mom passed June 12th of 2005 and I still miss her every day. What really helps is that I have several close friends that I can talk to who have lost their moms as well. I still talk to my mom and dad. I tell them how much I love them, miss them, I apologized for any hurt or pain I caused them which is followed by a good cry. I do believe they hear spiritually.