me to have a baby with him. We already have 6yr daughter. He wants a boy. We both want kids. He is seeing someone that can't have anymore children. I told him I would like to do it right (by being married). I still love him but I think he is being selfish. I do believe he still has feelings for me. We have previously talked of getting back together but I think both of us are scared it won't work. We don't want to keep upseting our daughter with the back and forth.
2006-11-30 02:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by HotMommi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if you don't think it will work out, don't do it. it probably won't, trust your instinct, and then you will have two children that are getting upset by the back and forth.
at least you said you want to do it the right way.
2006-11-30 02:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by pikachu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it right being married. Ignore the baby talk, set up a time for him to be with his daughter, you move on with your life, it looks like he has you on stand by, making a baby is the excuse, don't fall for it.
2006-11-30 02:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. For starters, you call him, 'my daughter's father'. You are not acknowledging a relationship with him. Secondly, he's seeing somone else. Third, what if you have another girl? Will he help raise her? Fourth, if you have a boy, will he try to get custody so he can raise the baby with this other lady?
2006-11-30 02:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, find a real man who will treat you right. This guy is with another woman and wants to have kids with you. Sounds like another K-Fed. Think about how you would feel if your daughter came up to you and told you this story. How would you react / feel? 'Nuff said.
2006-11-30 02:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is being selfish to ask you to have another baby with him,
if you think it would work out now I would try to live together but certainly not bring another kid into the world,
2006-11-30 02:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter's father is "wacked", to even ask you this, and is this child going to be raised by you and him, or her and him, you better think about this real good, and look not in the present, but in the future.
2006-11-30 02:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. you need to find someone who isnt selfish. this guy has another girlfriend and wants another baby with you then thats really not someon you should get married to.
2006-11-30 02:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by bananaboo517 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under the circumstances you described it is not a good idea.
2006-11-30 02:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to Jerry Springer and see what he says
2006-11-30 02:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What happens is you don't have a boy? How ridicules, he obviously has very little respect for you, and for you to even consider this, you obviously have very little respect for yourself.
2006-11-30 02:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Ceajae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋