is he sincere or he wants to get it his way?

Question

i've been in a 6 year "relationship" with a guy i've been friends with all my life. the problem is that when he was seeing me, he still met other girls and i knew all about it. i used to cry all night cause of that. i told him that he is treating me bad and asked him to stop doing it. he promised he would, but he never did. i tried to end it many times, but somehow i fall for him again. my friends are always telling me to get over him, but i feel that i can not live with him. i tried to be strong and changed my number so as to loose all contact. however, after a month he came to me, told me that he can't live without me and that he'll never find somebody like me in the whole world. i tried to move away and not listen to him and then he said, its useless to run away cause whether you like it or not we will get married someday and he started to describe how it will be. he came to kiss me but i left and when i got home i cried my eyes out. shall i give him another chance?

Answer 1

Dont get back with him. First off if you are young you could possibly fall in love a number of times. Each relationship your learn from the previous one. Find someone who will respect you and want a one on one relationship. The relationship will only work if both people are on the same page. If he really loved you he wouldnt be hanging out with other girls. I think he isnt mature enough to handle a relationship with you. You appear ready to move on and i think he feels threatened by you, because he always had you to fall back on . THe hurt will got away, unfortunately it just takes time:)

Answer 2

If you are convinced that he will marry you and not cheat then
go ahead and marry him....Get a good pre-nup first that really
makes him pay if he cheats...

Answer 3

not if you have any self respect you won't