i dont know if i should be tell this and putting i dont think im in love with my man anymore. theres someone else im getting feelings for but im so confused at the moment i dont know if theyre real!!!
2006-11-30 02:10:37 · 16 answers · asked by clutterbug84 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are questioning it, then it is probably best to move on. When you truly are in love with someone, you will never question it. Good Luck.
2006-11-30 02:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should deffinatley NOT wait to see how serious this other guy is, whilst knowing your boyfriend is there to fall back on- lots of people do this ie have affairs while they decide who to choose-it is cowardly & selfish thing to do.
Whats going on here? has your bf been less afftectionate towards you and now someone else is paying you attention you feel flattered and 'noticed'. ask yourself what you want -
have you invested a lot into your current relationship?
Are you unhappy with your bf, or have things just got a bit boring and bland?
You have been tempted by someone and now you cant get him out of your head....if you really didnt want to be with your bf you would break up and be with this new guy. If you feel like that would be a HUGE risk and a lot to lose, then you know in your heart that this new guy may seem exciting for now, but what you have with your bf is the real thing.
without knowing the full story it is hard to give an opinion on the matter. I hope things work out for you
relationships are hard work sometimes
the grass is always greener on the otherside
2006-11-30 10:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Estee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens when you do this again with the "other man" ? You don't think you love your man anymore? Love takes work. If you are thinking about someone else, you aren't taking care of your man. How does your man treat you? Does he beat you? Does he go out on you? If no, then it sounds like you have the problem and you need to fix it. You are bored. Another man will only fix your boredom temporarily, but you didn't fix the problem in the first place, so it will return. Find a hobby you like. Be extra nice to your man and I bet he returns the favor. Don't dwell on other people, dwell on how to get the spark back in your life. Good Luck.
2006-11-30 10:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Becky F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, maybe I'm late with answering. But here goes. The first thing you need to do is really be honest with yourself. Is it infactuation you're feeling for this new man. I ask because infactuation will quickly fade away once you've commenced into a relationship with this man. Later you'll discover some things you don't like about him and cannot tolerate. It's best to look at the future and what you want out of these men and what they can provide to you in the future. Also, it's not good to serial date.
2006-11-30 10:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by MsKnowitall-Not 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been there too n found out i wasnt in luv with my man anymore cause i fell in 4 sumbody else...i broke up n it hurt sooooo much after 4 years together...maybe u should tell him u r not sure about ur feelings n need sumtime by urself 2 make up ur mind cuz u dont wanna hurt him...mayb u still luv him but sumtimes we all get confused with sumbody else...just try 2 know whats happening 2 u cuz if u dont uv him anymore u have 2 be faire n honest with the one whos still ur man (sorry about my english, i'm spanish) Good luck
2006-11-30 10:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Ebony eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are questioning it then you probably should look back and see is it for real or have th two of you just been playing games with each other take a good hard look and then decide you may be confused now but when you are done evaluating yourself then you will most likely know where you are standing and where you want to be standing
2006-11-30 10:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by CeCi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that happens actually to all of us we just fell out of love with a person maybe your bf did or dos thing that you hate so you emotion natural withdraws from that person and that time your mind just says i don't love that person anymore if you are doubting your self then there is your answer time to move on but i would really talk to your bf first find where the problem is try to see if it can be work out if not then move on don't waist your time if it cant be fixed
2006-11-30 10:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you are bored in your current relationship and seek excitement with a new lover. You will have many loves, and true love never dies, so Leave him. It's not worth you being unhappy in a situation you don't like when you can have passion and adventure in a new one. Girls always trust those instincts, my mother wasn't Happy with her relationship and ended it earlier on this year, and she is pleased she did so, turns out he was cheating on her!
2006-11-30 10:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TAKE A WEEK OFF AND GO AWAY FOR A WEEK WITH YOURE MAN AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS I SUGGEST A LOG CABIN IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE WITH A ROARING LOG FIRE AND A DOUBLE SLEEPING SO YOU CAN CUDDLE UP TO YOURE MAN AS THE PASSION MIGHT OF GONE OUT OFF YOURE RELATIONSHIP AND THAT SHOULD PUT THE SPARK BACK IN YOURE RELATIONSHIP ALSO LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENS IF IT SORTS OUT YOURE PROBLEM
2006-11-30 10:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by JAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you do love your man, youve just found someone whos exciting and fresh and new!
stop while your ahead.
either finish with your bloke first, or you need to cut all strings with ur new fancy man!
either way somebodys going to get hurt.
2006-11-30 10:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by geminially 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋