Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and 2 months and he have be talking another girl but he said they don't go out or whatever like that. He told my bestfriend sista if she tell me he wold slap her.But I'm really in love with this boy what should I do
2006-11-30 02:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by HIS CHICK FORVER 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A boy like that is incapable of love at this point, do not fall for someone who would treat women like he does. find a good guy
2006-11-30 02:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your guy is innocent, why else wouldn't he tell you about the other girl.He even threatened your sister so she wouldn't tell u ! How rude
Apparently, he some intentions to cheat that’s if he hasn't yet..
Stop calling him or don’t return his calls, just change your attitude with him for a while, get him to ask what went wrong, when he does confront him that u heard from someone, name anyone but not your sister of course you don't want her to get slapped!)
about his girl see what excuses "pushed" him to this other girl and not tell u about her!
Good luck!
2006-11-30 10:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Whatever299 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How cruel it may sound,tell him you think its best you 2 be friends.
Let him know you heard about some stuff that disturbed you,and you need some time to think about it all.
Trust me,you will get him thinking and HE knows what he has done wrong.
He may confess to his conversations with this other woman,or he will still try to hide it.Than again do YOU really want a man thats going to hide things from you?
I know this will hurt you,but you will bea a better woman and stronger one after all is over and done.
Good luck and be careful *hugs*
2006-11-30 10:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by sunflower2052002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must not really care about ur feelings to much. maybe he isnt the right one for you. just because you to were dating for the longest time doesnt mean your in love and even if that he could possibly be cheating on you and you really dont realize it yet and if he is any right guy for you dont u think HITTING A GIRL or THREATING TO HIT A GIRL...is a little wierd and really abusive?
2006-11-30 10:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by bananaboo517 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all there more than likely not just talking. How many times have i heard that lame excuse and it turned out he was cheating. If you dont like him "talking" to her then tell him to STOP or your gonna leave. YOur probably better off.
2006-11-30 10:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to another guy, and see how he reacts. tell him you two are 'just friends' and you don't go out with him...
but for real...if he wants to be with you and only you he would stop secretly talking to other females...
what about talking to the 'other girl'? that's what i would do...
2006-11-30 10:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it hun, then see how it goes from there. If he is doing this, do you really want to be with someone who does this?...
You deserve better! xxx
2006-11-30 10:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by millsey89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has something to hide..confront him about it directly..but instinct would tell you love or not, something's fishy
2006-11-30 10:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont resort to violence or drinking
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2006-11-30 10:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by s s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋