they r qute,clever even sexy the worst is that they r friends i am very head mix
2006-11-30 01:14:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pick da last one standing
2006-11-30 17:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are TRULY great friends....find anther guy who is out of your immediate circle!
You don't state how old you are; I am "assuming" you are rather young, since most grown men [who are sensible] would not "fight" over someone as you have described.
At any rate, there are lots of fish in the sea, don't come between good friends...unless you want your relationship to be filled with constant conflict. Oh yeah,....the guy who doesn't end up with you....will most likely start putting you down and finding fault with you and voicing his opinions to his friend..... Just another spin on things, and something for you to think about.
Good luck.
2006-11-30 01:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody else. Been there done that and neither guy was worth it. In the end the guy you don't choose will be jealous and continue to pursue you anyway and cause the guy you're with to become insecure and extremely jealous.
If that isn't the outcome then it could be worse, but that was my experience. The guy I didn't choose made the relationship hard for the guy I did choose. My suggestion is to find someone else!
2006-11-30 01:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both the clever guys love you VERY much and are fighting over you, and are even willing to cut you in half and take half a piece each, find a judge to decide the winner.
The real winner?
The guy who finally says to the other guy " You take her, Man. I love her soooooooo much that I don't even want to see her harmed!"
He is the real lover!
2006-11-30 01:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by thegentle Indian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Are you special or what? I would suggest you put a stop to this foolishness IMMEDIATELY! I mean really, two friends fighting over YOU? How special do you need to feel at someone elses expense? Tell them if they don't stop and shake hands immediately, you won't go out with either of them. And the first one to shake hands with the other is the one I'd go out with. Sheesh, I mean really!
2006-11-30 01:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel like you have to pick one of them right now? Unless you enjoy damaging friendships, say no to both of them. Once they cool down and stop pressuring you, then you can think about which guy (if either one) you want to go out with.
2006-11-30 01:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pick the one you feel is best for you. Otherwise I would dump them both. Don't get off on watching two guys fight each other over you. Jeolousy can get people killed. Pick one now or don't pick anyone at all. Whatever it is, make that choice now.
2006-11-30 01:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should weigh down all the positive and negative traits of each guy, and seek from your heart and mind which guy would you want to really have a serious relationship. someone whom you could be with thru thick and thin, in short let them fight over you, the one who is still without any bruises is your man! go girl!
2006-11-30 01:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at the guys and see which one you could see as someday being a good father to your child...then get to know that guy. Also which one cares the most about you as a person, and not just your beauty....that's the guy for you.
2006-11-30 01:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by alley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realize that if you pick one over the other its gonna be a big blow to their friendship. Don't pick the person by how much money they have money isn't everything. Pick the person by who you care the most about. If you don't really care about either one then don't pick either of them.
2006-11-30 01:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by buggs8498 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
which ever one is nicer to you...do what flava flav did, have em go out on equal without telling them that they are competing and pick the better one
2006-11-30 01:16:16 · answer #11 · answered by andy2020@prodigy.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋