i found out that the girl i liked was cheating on me, so i dumped her. was that right? i dont know if it was a mistake or not.
2006-11-30 01:06:33 · 26 answers · asked by blaze_inoichi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was a girl you liked, and not with, then she can sleep with whoever she wants. If she was your gf, then duh, you did the right thing by dumping her.
2006-11-30 01:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl you liked was found cheating? How can she be cheating if you only liked her and were not involved with her? If you were involved with her and you two broke up over it you have to ask yourself was she under the impression your relationship was a committed one and you could not see others, if she was and she still chose to see others the only thing to do is move on once a cheater always a cheater and I highly doubt you could trust her 100% in the back of your mind to never do it again.
2006-11-30 01:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first reaction is usually the correct one!
yes you did the right thing! Only you know what you can tolerate out of another person, do NOT doubt yourself!
in my opinion, cheaters are getting WAAAAAAAAY too much sympathy these days. I mean if you are in a relationship and ya wanna go screw someone else, say this "I want to break up/divorce" whatever the correct wording would be.
YOU CAN find someone out there that WILL NOT make you feel awful and will not cheat.
I am sorry this has happened to you.
2006-11-30 01:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you did the right thing.
But that is something that you have to deal with in your own way. I don't think once a cheater, always a cheater, and in the right circumstances, you can give someone like that a second chance. But, like I said, it is something only you can decide.
I divorced my hubby for cheating, and would not have given him a second chance. But I am now going out with someone who cheated on his wife before getting divorced, and believe he has changed. All things in life are a risk Hon. you just have to deal with the consequences in your own way.
2006-11-30 01:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that she will stay "faithful" if she did it "just once"??? Not likely!
There was a 'reason' why she did it, and what her problem is, is probably beyond your control.
If you "dumped her", then let her stay dumped.
You dont want to get her back and have her do it again, because if you call her back, then she has you wrapped around her finger and she can do it with out any regret the "next time"....
Obviously "you" dont have what it takes to keep her, some one else might, so let them have her...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-11-30 01:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made the right decision. I know that some people change but for the most part when someone cheats they always cheat.
2006-11-30 01:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only mistake you made was questioning yourself. Why would you want to be with someone that would cheat on you?! Go find yourself a girl that respects & cares for you.
2006-11-30 01:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you were right. Relationships are difficult enough.
But... you say it was a girl you liked, honestly, how many times did you go out with her? If you only went out with her once or twice and it was still casual then she had the right to keep looking. I had one boyfriend who considered us dating after a single date even though he didn't call me back for several weeks.
So, if you had only gone out a few times and it wasn't physical and you still like her, invite her out for coffee and let her know how serious you are, maybe she didn't think you were interested in her.
2006-11-30 01:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was cheating then yes you did the right thing.. I am a firm believer in "Once a cheater always a cheater".. and that is just from my experience... Move on and find you a good woman... Good Luck!!
2006-11-30 01:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Indymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel that she wasnt the right gurl for you then you did the right thing but if you still love her you should try to get her back and then if she cheats on you again then you know that she isnt going to stop. i was in a situation like this with my ex bf he cheated on me and got the other gurl knocked up and then he wanted my back but i wouldnt take him back because he is trouble and now he is serving 32 years in jail but if u still love her then try and get her back
2006-11-30 01:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by babygurl89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certainly do no longer call the ex. no longer her problem. Your guy is cheating on you, no longer her. he's already lied approximately it two times (as quickly as by omission and as quickly as out impressive.) No element in persevering with to ask him approximately it. be certain the way you experience and what you decide directly to do. What would make you experience extra effective? no rely if it particularly is barely venting the way you experience to him and letting him understand you do no longer have confidence him, do this. in case you decide on counseling, bypass the two with him or on my own. in case you decide on him to pledge to no longer proceed cheating, solicit a promise. in spite of everything, the "cheating" got here approximately in August. it particularly is January. you do no longer stay in that city and it seems such as you decide directly to artwork it out. Do. there is not any set reaction for infidelity.
2016-10-04 13:33:21 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋