I am so confused right now because my on and off boyfriend keep getting back together and I am to the point I dont know what he wants anymore...He broke up with me out of nowhere the other day and then the day wanted to be with me again...?? I keep taking him back because I truely do love him alot and will take him back anytime...this is the 4th time being together..I dont know if he's taking me for granted or as a joke. I am so confused. I love him and I want him to feel the same for me....HELP
2006-11-30 01:02:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems as if you have LET him cause this pattern. He knows that he can break up with you and you will take him back. So, he will continue to do it. If you don't want this cycle to continue, you need to tell him the next time that he breaks up with you - this is it! I will not take you back and I am moving on. He's playing games and you are allowing him to so it. Good Luck.
2006-11-30 01:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK sweetheart, I feel for you ont his one. I'm in love with a guy who doesn't feel the same way, one minute he wants to sleep with me, the next he' ignoring me saying he cant....and round and round we go, but hey, we aint here to talk about me!
All i can suggest is you sit him down and tell hm how you feel. Don't let him dodge the question, you want straight answers.
You need to tell him you love him but you canot go on this way. You need to ask him if he loves you too. If he doesn't and he is only using you as a booty call, then ditch him.
You need to tell him if you have an argument thats normal, and yes, you both may need space at some times, but you cant keep breaking up and getting back together.
My advice is tell him if you are together, you stay together, no exceptions.
If you need me you can email or IM me. Good luck hunny xx
2006-11-30 01:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's either not taking you seriously or he doesn't know what he wants. Either way you need to make him see what he's missing, do this by not taking him back and getting on with your life and enjoy yourself, he'll see that you don't need him to have fun and he'll realise what he's lost. If he doesn't then at least you are enjoying yourself and not stressing your life away over this guy.
2006-11-30 01:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by danyol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. I really dont think he likes you. Because if he did, he wouldnt have broken up with you. Its a joke. So watch your back. He probably doesnt have anything else to do. So hes going to mess with your emotions!
2006-11-30 01:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica marie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE WILL NOT FEEL THE SAME AS YOU DO. THINGS ARE TOO EASY FOR HIM LIKE THEY ARE. HE IS USING YOU AT HIS CONVENIENCE AND AT THE EXPENSE OF YOUR HEART. YOU MUST CUT HIM LOOSE AND DIG DEEP INTO YOURSELF TO FIND THE STRENGTH TO CONTINUE ON WITHOUT HIM. AS LONG AS YOU KEEP LETTING HIM COME BACK AND FORTH, HE WILL NOT HAVE THE RESPECT FOR YOU THAT YOU DESERVE FROM A REAL MAN.
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU HONEY.
2006-11-30 01:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be, but I sure in the hell would!
If you told him that you were into sleeping with the girl he's screwing on the side, your relationship might just work out!
peace
2006-11-30 01:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games and you're playing into them. Be strong and walk away from that mess. He obviously doesn't have a clue what he's doing or what he wants.
2006-11-30 01:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that he is with you when he is not with someone else. At least it seems like that to me. Maybe he likes someone else and when that person doesn't show interest in him, then he goes back to you.
2006-11-30 01:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by dailyshag 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like it was over a while ago.
2006-11-30 01:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ci Ci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make him feel the same, so you either put up and shut up or get out
2006-11-30 01:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by bodecia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋