Ok I like this guy alot alot and My friend gave me his # so we talked and i feel for him and no i saw his pic and hes not the hottest but not very ugly girls what would you do if you were me?
2006-11-30 00:51:09 · 24 answers · asked by hot chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't always base relationships on looks. They matter to an extent, but it is what inside that matters most. If they treat you well and with respect, then why should what they look like matter?? Besides, looks grow on you. Who you may think is unattractive now, will look hot to you later on, when you get to know them. It happens. When you get older, you realize what matters most.
2006-11-30 00:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by 81% Naughty, 19% Nice 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I first met my boyfriend we were at a party of a mutual friend. I had no physical attraction to him what so ever. But, since we were the only single ones there we gravitated towards each other and had a great chat. The more I talked to him the more I liked him. Strictly as a friend. We had such a great time talking to each other that we exchanged phone numbers and became bestfriends. As time passed I got to know who he really was and what he was like and I fell in love with him. Because he's so beautiful on the inside, I can't help but love everything about him on the inside.
Give this guy a chance as a person. You might find a wonderful friend, if nothing else. Or you may find the love of your life. Looks aren't everything. Go out on a couple of dates. See if you click. That's the main thing. If not, then it wasn't meant to be. And that's okay. But you always need to take a chance.
2006-11-30 09:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by KellyBelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are concerned about looks, your shallow. Sorry, truth bites sometimes! If you talked and found you have a lot in common and enjoyed the conversation and connected on some level, who cares what he looks like! I know coming from a guy, this seems contradictory, but I believe the reason our divorce rate is so high in USA is because people are marrying and getting together because they are NOT connected with each other except something superficial in their life! Whether it be money, looks, family, whatever, they just aren't really connecting. If you connect and feel the other is right there with you, then venture into deeper waters and see where the relationship goes! You may find that you can connect on a deeper level or you may find that your initial connection wasn't what it seems. But don't be so shallow as to base a relationship on looks!
peace,
c
2006-11-30 09:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by ceebee1111 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If looks matter to you, then you need to break it off before you hurt the guy. Yes looks do matter at first. One uses appearance to attract someone, but it is the content of your character and your willingness to do what it takes to make a relationship work that keeps someone in your life.
If you like the guy a lot, give it a chance. He may surprise you. If you are a little too shallow, then you need to find the hunk you crave and hope he is Mr. Wonderful to boot.
2006-11-30 08:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
face it, if your already concerned about this, than looks do matter to you. If you do get into a relationship with this man, will you be concerned with how others look at him? Or are you more concerned with the emotional aspect of a relationship? Some women do care about looks and I believe you have to be physically attracted to someone to make it work. If you don't think you can get beyond this, than leave him to someone that might think hes perfect the way he is, he deserves that.
2006-11-30 08:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do looks matter....yes they matter...but you have to have some sort of physical attraction there...that's a really big part...so if they're ok to you and they have a great personality...it kinda makes up for it..but regardless for you to date someone..yes looks do matter.
2006-11-30 08:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN ... all people have ways of compensating for what they feel handicapped or not handicapped with i.e. tall people like to sit, fat people like to make u laugh handsome people are obnoxious and ugly people want your sympathy
Ask yourself while you look at him if thats what you want to wake up to every morning ... if that dont do it then ask yourself what think your babies will look like. If you like what you see then stay ... if not RUN
2006-11-30 08:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Truth D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personality is very important for a relationship but there must also be a physical attraction, you will struggle to motivate yourself for the relationship if you don't find your partner physically attractive.
2006-11-30 08:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you really like him like you say than looks should not matter at all. (there is a person i like it is just something about their personality that i am just in love with. but they do not have the best looks but that does not stop me from liking them)
basically no looks should not matter
or at least not come first
2006-11-30 08:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think in todays sociey it does when you talk about getting a job or something like that. People today look at how you dress, if you smell, and stuff like good hygene.
2006-11-30 08:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by mburg_adam 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋