i live with my mom and her huspand mark. he did somethings to me when i was younger but me and my sister couldn't prove it. my mom didn't believe me. now i'm 15 and he is alwas yelling at me and calling me names and my dad names too. i can't go anywhere or talk to anyone i can't have anyone come to me house or do anything. well last night i made up my mind that i can't live there i don't want to hurt me mom but she's hurting me right. well i can't even talk to my dad. i want to go live with him or go live there in the summer and on the weekends. i really just can't live with them anymore and want to live with my dad is there anyway i can do this and whats the fastest way.bye the way my dad own visatasions about ayear and a half or two ago but wasn't allowed to go see him. (it has been going on like this for about 8 years) it started up more after he did that stuff to me and me and my sis turned him in? Please help me
2006-11-30 00:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my sisters 27 now
2006-11-30 01:09:19 · update #1
he doesn't do this to anyone but me mostly
2006-11-30 01:09:55 · update #2
i have another sister but she's marks not my dads she's 9 or 10 but he treats her good that i know of
2006-11-30 01:13:22 · update #3
What the hell if wrong with your mom,letting a man do that to you.. You need to go live with your dad..Call him and tell him what is going on.. Talk to your dad and see what he says.. You dont deserve to be abused...
2006-11-30 00:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Indymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Britt - sweetie. I am sorry you have to go through all this at your tener age of 15.....Do you have grandparents you can talk with about this? About the abuse - you & your sister need to write down everything you can remember about then and what's happening now. If your grandparents won't listen - take your written statement to family services......but be preapared - once you do that there's no going back. Try and talk with your dad first though. He needs to know about what's going on NOW!!! You and your sister need to take a united front and hold your mom and step dad accountable. This is not your fault - it's their's. Tell someone ASAP!
2006-11-30 08:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go talk to someone you can trust who isn't directly involved in this situation. If you have a teacher you like and trust i would start there and get some advice from them. You should also tell your dad about your concerns and see what he has to say. You shouldn't be dealing with such a horrible situation on your own at your age. Get some help.
2006-11-30 08:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Diet_smartie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u poor girl i feel for u and ur sister and to have ur mum not believe u that is horrorfying..... i think the best thing to do is call up a help line like kids helpline or something.... maybe also go into ur locla welfare and see what they can do about helping u go live with ur dad.. but can i ask why can't u tell ur dad i am sure he would understand and do everything in his power to get u out of there.... have u told the police? maybe a school counseller? i really hope everything works out for u m8...... even try ringing ur dad and see if he can find out whether u have to stay at ur mums y law or whether u can just move to ur dads... but u really should talk to ur dad i think he would be devastated if he ever found out wat happened to u and u didnt tell him....
2006-11-30 09:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad. You need to tell your dad. He'll take care of Mark and he'll see to it that you can't be harmed by him anymore. Please tell your dad. Unfortunately when something like that happened to me when I was younger my mother was so blinded by love that she didn't believe me and thought I was saying it to get her to leave him because I didn't like him or something. Call your dad tell him you have something important to talk to him about and leave. If for some reason you can't reach your dad then tell someone in school. You need to get away from this because it's going to mess you up later in life if it isn't stopped soon and if you don't talk to someone to help you through this. Once your dad gets involved and your mom comes to the realization that what you are saying is true, she will be supportive as well. Sometimes it's hard for mothers to accept that someone they brought into their children's lives could harm them in such a way. Please talk to your dad or the school, this can't keep going on to you. Your sister is older, if this happened to her, why don't you ask her for help in getting you out of there as well? I don't understand why nothing was done if your sister turned him in? Talk openly no matter how embarrassing or painful to someone in school, have them get in touch with your dad for you write him a latter and mail it if you have to! This guy is going to keep doing this crap if you don't...and he may victimize someone else as well after you if not caught for his deeds. I'll be thinking of you tonight. I have a 15 yr. old daughter and I'd kill the SOB who laid a hand on her in anyway to harm her like that. Your mom should've left him!!
2006-12-01 09:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by slinkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hon, i sujest that you go to the school councilor and talk to them. they will help you and your sister get out of there. And don't blame your mother to much for not believing you.. she Is kinda in the middle here. the guy that she thinks she loves she don't want to believe that he could do such a think.. but deep down she knows you are right.. you are just going to have to get your help started from at school.. and see if they can't help you to get ahold of your dad from there. he is going to have to get an attorney and get custody changed or you are going to have to hang in there until you are 16 and just leave.. but make sure that you take your sister with you.. don't want this happening to her too..
Maybe later when your mom gets rid of the guy that she is with or if she gets him put in jail for sexually abusing you then you can have visitation with her again.. Social services come and got my daughter from school so that she didn't have the hassel from being at home with her dad when this was going on..worked out well for her.. I could only get him put in jail for 5 years for this so it isn't much time but gives you time to be older and know how to take care of yourself in this problem..
I was like your mom didn't want to believe the man that i loved could do something like this..
So just do what you can through the courts and you can get it going all on your own.. the two of you girls will be just fine..
talk to them at school and get ahold of your dad so he has a chance to help you out..
good luck.. keep turning him in until they believe you.. call 911 every time he comes and touches you..
it works.
hope everything works out ok..
just take care of your sister too..
2006-11-30 09:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been in your posistion and i know hard it must b for you and your sister.......... But their is some thing i'm not quite sure about was it MARK or YOUR DAD who crossed the line with you and your sister?
2006-11-30 09:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by free2fall67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's that bad, go, why wait?
2006-11-30 08:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by jjt168 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋